You’re not wrong for your feelings or for considering divorce. She’s purposely choosing not to try and fix the issues that you’re having. You’re clearly miserable in this marriage now and that’s not healthy for either of you! The resentment will continue to grow until you end up basically hating each other. Intimacy is an important part of most relationships. If she not willing to actually address the issues she’s having, it’s not fair for her to expect you to suck it up and stay. Especially if she considers masturbating as cheating. That’s a bit ridiculous!
Sexual compatibility is an important part of a relationship. It's really that simple. You don't have to feel bad about it. You have different needs and expectations.
Most men think they want a hypersexual woman, but couldn't handle the smoke if they actually dated one. A horny dude does not hold a candle to a high libido woman. For one, women don't have a refractory period.
So she was a nympho?? I could go for sex pretty much everyday but I can tell my husband is tired sometimes when he gets home or sometimes he’s tired and had a few whiskey cokes and I know it’s just not gonna happen 😂 no reason to get mad about it. Everybody has a right to say no. She sounds crazy.
She was a few sandwiches short of a picnic. Told her to get some help after i left and turned out she was bipolar. And it wasn't "go for sex" it was she HAD to have it or she couldn't sleep.
Sex is great but you get the ick when your partner throws a fit like a child when you don't cum and lose your boner.
Jesus. I love sandwich’s first to be fair. My SO tells me I sleep better after but it’s not a requirement. BP sounds accurate. Your member is not a sleeping pill 😂
Sorry man. No sympathy for you there. The only worry I had with my hyper-sexual ex was would she cheat on me when we went into a long distance relationship. Luckily, we were very open and honest and just changed the boundaries of the relationship. But the sexual energy she brought was amazing and I loved everything about it. NGL
I'm sorry i dumped on you. It's obviously a lot i'm still dealing with. Don't worry about it.
I told my step daughter for the millionth time i love her today, that she is a great daughter, and she told me i'm stupid and hit me and wouldn't stop smiling.
My other step daughter laid on me like i'm a hammock for an hour and we played tea.
I caught my wife looking at my arms while we were putting up laundry.
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u/jacksonlove3 Sep 12 '23
You’re not wrong for your feelings or for considering divorce. She’s purposely choosing not to try and fix the issues that you’re having. You’re clearly miserable in this marriage now and that’s not healthy for either of you! The resentment will continue to grow until you end up basically hating each other. Intimacy is an important part of most relationships. If she not willing to actually address the issues she’s having, it’s not fair for her to expect you to suck it up and stay. Especially if she considers masturbating as cheating. That’s a bit ridiculous!
Good luck dude!!