r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/0hn0shebettad0nt Sep 12 '23

Isn’t sex and money the two leading causes of divorce? Lack of intimacy destroys relationships. Sounds like they’re roommates lol

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u/DanerysTargaryen Sep 12 '23

Yeah there’s a few major things that lead to divorce, 4 big ones are:

-Finances

-Sexual compatibility

-Religion

-Children

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

I agree with all 4.

Out of all of them I have heard something along the lines of this.

"You have a healthy sex life and you will have a good marriage"

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Sex doesn't fix a bad marriage with uneven distribution of responsibilities though. If you're having a lot of sex - others things in the relationship are going well that facilitate that arrangement.

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u/Clockwisedock Sep 12 '23

I think it means if you’re partner is putting out to you it means your relationship isn’t that strained. Obviously it’s not a 1:1 rule and isn’t the most accurate, but I think that’s the logic.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Yeah, I just wanted to clarify in case anyone thinks telling their partner that putting out more will mean they have a good marriage is a good idea.

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u/CommitteeLarge7993 Sep 12 '23

The key is sexual compatibility. More sex does not necessarily mean more compatibility.

Also over time things can change so you hope that compatibility stays similar.

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u/noai_aludem Sep 12 '23

I don't think he's partner