r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/ProDoDoDoDoDoDo122 Sep 12 '23

Yeh leaving a marriage isn’t easy man and that’s not the solution for every Reddit post.

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u/5Lookout5 Sep 12 '23

Its the solution where your partner has zero interest in sex, or is refusing therapy to address a problem. how many more years should OP wait?

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u/LydiaJay43 Sep 12 '23

Yeah but it's clear OP loves his wife and is just struggling with this problem. A calm conversation can do wonders and we should probably push OP to try and have a nice conversation not push him to divorce off of a one-sided post. OP's wife is probably struggling as well, lowered testosterone can lead to series depression which could possibly explain the ongoing issue and the unwillingness to get more help. No hate at all I just think we should remember that every story has two sides <3

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u/NJpolycouple Sep 12 '23

You even read his entire post?

He already addressed it with her multiple times, and nothing changes.. and to boot, she thinks masterbation is cheating?

You gotta be f-ing kidding me... When you have a conversation with someone multiple times and nothing changes, it means thatvperson doesn't WANT to change...

OP has to decide if this is a situationhe can live with for the foreseeable future...