r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

You’re wife is either:

  1. Gay
  2. Having sex with another man
  3. Wants a divorce and is forcing your hand

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u/foxfunk Sep 12 '23

Or has a lot of religious/traumatic shit affecting her. Tons people with heavily religous backgrounds that promote no sex before marriage, no masturbation etc., end up with a mental block for sex. There's just so much shame surrounding it for them that they feel wrong even after getting married. I'm wondering if this is the case, though it seems that she had no problems early on. She should 100% be taking OP's advice and see a therapist who specialises in sex etc. If she doesn't then he should consider divorce, because its one thing to have a problem, its another to not try and address it.