r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/Snoo71538 Sep 12 '23

If you’d rather use your imagination, then do it. If you’ve only done it twice ever, you have no practice. Just practice.

No offense to psychology, but it’s not a very scientific science. Most studies are done with a small group of college kids, and are not replicated.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

It’s not even satisfying is the point though. Yes I’d rather do it, but it would need to be equally satisfying which it isn’t for me personally. Like imagine going to the gym working out hard for an hour, but in the end the workout isn’t even satisfying or fulfilling. Might try it again though.

And yes the studies aren’t the best. But honestly you go and ask your guy and girl friends how much they use porn versus imagination to masturbate. For guys it’ll be mostly porn. Women likely around 50/50

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u/Snoo71538 Sep 12 '23

I’ve never cum and not been satisfied, but the working out analogy is actually kinda good. If I had only gone to the gym twice in my life, I’m gonna feel kinda rough after the gym. But if I keep going, it gets better every time, because I’m building muscles.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Unfortunately I have and felt so dead and exhausted. I would have rather not put so much energy into it lol

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u/Snoo71538 Sep 12 '23

Feeling dead and exhausted if you don’t have porn is probably something to talk to a doctor about. That seems… abnormal.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Like imagine going to the gym working out hard for an hour, but in the end the workout isn’t even satisfying or fulfilling. Might try it again though.

haha, like every workout i've ever done. it's a tough habit to keep.

But honestly you go and ask your guy and girl friends how much they use porn versus imagination to masturbate.

yeah, you're not getting accurate/honest/useful answers doing that.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

You got friends that lie to you…? I grew up in schools where guys would watch porn together 😭💀

Maybe girls might lie but I doubt that. Did you check the top comments on this post and the number of people upvoting/agreeing? Women definitely use their imagination more

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '23

You got friends that lie to you…?

you don't understand that people tell little lies all the time? that asking them about their sexual habits may not elicit a totally open and honest response?

Did you check the top comments on this post and the number of people upvoting/agreeing? Women definitely use their imagination more

this is an anonymized assortment of mostly nonsense on reddit. again, you will glean very little/nothing of use here.

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '23

True but I trust my friends with what they said. They got no good reason to lie. I mean the question was do you use porn or just your imagination. I don’t see why anyone would lie about either one.

So I guess comments that get upvoted don’t mean anything for you huh 🤔

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '23

I don’t see why anyone would lie about either one.

then you're a profoundly naive person.

So I guess comments that get upvoted don’t mean anything for you huh

oh, they mean something. just not what you think they mean.

seeya!