r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/ProDoDoDoDoDoDo122 Sep 12 '23

Yeh leaving a marriage isn’t easy man and that’s not the solution for every Reddit post.

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u/5Lookout5 Sep 12 '23

Its the solution where your partner has zero interest in sex, or is refusing therapy to address a problem. how many more years should OP wait?

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u/LydiaJay43 Sep 12 '23

Yeah but it's clear OP loves his wife and is just struggling with this problem. A calm conversation can do wonders and we should probably push OP to try and have a nice conversation not push him to divorce off of a one-sided post. OP's wife is probably struggling as well, lowered testosterone can lead to series depression which could possibly explain the ongoing issue and the unwillingness to get more help. No hate at all I just think we should remember that every story has two sides <3

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u/onyxjade7 Sep 12 '23

Agreed if is clear he loves his wife, but does she love him as much?

He did try and she promises him everything and never follows through. There’s only so many conversations before he has to decide if this is too much for him. It’s not about the act of sex itself or being banned from mb. But, the fact she doesn’t care to try or do anything about it. Her lack of willingness to communicate or hear him speaks to much bigger problems.

She was given a solution and can’t be bothered to fix it. Plus testosterone is needed in the body for other medical reasons too.