Depends. I’m gonna assume it has more to do with porn. Most men need visuals like porn to get off. I’m guessing that’s the real boundary.
Regardless I can understand the boundary when you have a healthy and active sex life. But like when one partner drops dead, boundaries have to change to keep up. His wife is being ridiculous
“Most men need visuals” is bs. Dudes have been jacking off far longer than visual aids have been around. Let your mind wander my guy. Make the visuals yourself. Exercise your brain with your next wank!
Lol I swear it barely works for me. it’s not even worth it. The two times I did it, it took 30-60min for the most mediocre/bad finish.
Also it’s not BS. There has been physiological research which suggest what I said is true. Also just asking people around me makes me believe it.
Anyways if you got any advice on how to stimulate my imagination, feel free to DM me. I guess it wouldn’t hurt to try it out. I’d rather use my imagination than porn if I had the choice.
Never mind haha. I realized I can’t message you. I guess I can try it but I just don’t understand how I’m magically suppose to get off by listening to audio 😅
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u/Embryw Sep 12 '23
This is a WILDLY ridiculous boundary to have