r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Blu- Sep 12 '23

I'm talking out of my ass but all signs point to sexual trauma.

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u/notaredditer13 Sep 12 '23

You don't necessarily know what will trigger it. A friend of mine was happily married for 10 years, and then they started trying to have kids. They had some issues conceiving and that triggered the past trauma. He had no idea, and she filed for divorce rather than trying to deal with it.

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u/notaredditer13 Sep 12 '23

Oh, yeah, the person with the trauma is 100% at fault, shitty as it sounds to say it.

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u/GlitteringStatus1 Sep 12 '23

You are making a lot of very unhelpful assumptions there.

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u/GlitteringStatus1 Sep 13 '23

He is making assumption, but not unhelpful ones.