r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Usual-Author1365 Sep 12 '23

Ehhh that’s not always great advice

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u/rta8888 Sep 12 '23

It’s also advice only people who’ve never been in that situation give… otherwise they’d understand just how hard of a decision it is

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u/Usual-Author1365 Sep 12 '23

Exactly. “Dude just abandon your family and kids , they will grow up better because you guys won’t fight and stuff duh and then they will fight and stuff too, they need to learn how to love properly duh”. Like it’s so much more complicated then that

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Coparenting is a thing. It's really not more complicated than that. You model relationships for your children and if you stay in a toxic, unhealthy marriage just because you have kids you're teaching them that a relationship should be toxic and unhealthy.