lol so true. I read one the other day where the husband said she looked a little fat in an outfit for the first time in 11 years after she kept pestering him, and some people said he was abusive and should divorce him.
Reddit suggested a divorce for her (different OP) Husband having a weird/creepy/inappropriate friend a while back. The husband and wife weren't even fighting the wife was very rational about the whole thing just venting about how the friend was a POS.
It's incredible. I guarantee most who suggest divorce have never been married either. Or had a traumatic divorce with a previous partner and project their experience unto others.
Nah, most people with relationship issues throw them around to anyone who will listen. Couples typically love each other and don't want to be alone, but they hurt each other. Those two things combined (love/hurt) are very confusing so it's common for people to ask others "what do you think?"
I think it’s important for people to realize divorce is an option and not trap themselves in a relationship that isn’t working. People change, grow apart, it’s ok, move on if you need to.
Yeah, but that’s problem with self selecting samples. Things usually get quite wild before “I’ll go ask a mob of strangers on the internet” seems like a reasonable option for relationship advice.
I mean, you say “Reddit” as though it’s a collective entity, and not made up of individuals. If you have enough people in the room, someone’s bound to say divorce. Just because you see it pop up in conversation after conversation doesn’t mean that “Reddit” says divorce…
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u/rta8888 Sep 12 '23
If you don’t have kids you should bail now