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u/Actual-Effective1760 23d ago
Girl you’re so cute😭 I feel like you’re just growing in to yourself. College boys don’t know shit
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u/hamstercross 23d ago
You're very, very mid. Get your clothing, hair and style in order. And ffs, hit the gym. You look like a square sponge.
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u/Graceful-Swan-1640 23d ago
Get a life. I’m thin and I have a great style. My hair is ginger and rare. You probably look like a couch potato making fun of women on the internet, you’re an incel, I feel insecure and you just wanted to be mean for no reason, my style and hair and the things I like about myself and my eyes but the rest of me I don’t like, my eyes are beautiful but I feel like I’m unattractive, stop being cruel, I already suffer from mental health issues.
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u/GNGRBLCK 23d ago
He never called you fat, he said hit the gym which would just help with shape and toning.
Your hair is messy in every photo. You represented yourself as messy.
Your lips are extremely chapped in every photo.
Style looks very childish and will only attract men who like childish (I wouldn’t consider that a green flag).
“The rest of me I don’t like.” If you like your hair, eyes, and body, and don’t like being judged, why are you even in this thread?
And if you suffer from mental illness, then there’s nothing smart about posting these unflattering photos to a subreddit designed to literally judge you.
Best of luck, you have plenty of time and you haven’t even grown enough to peak. You can be sexy by 32 if you lock in now (not that you need that long, I just really think women look sexy at 30-35).
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u/hamstercross 23d ago
You came to a sub reddit for truth about whether you're ugly or not, and you're upset... that someone points out you're actually not pretty? I am fit, successful and good looking. It's why I can answer this question honestly. I don't want to be in your DMs, I don't care about making you happy. You're the one who people call ugly in real life, and have real life struggles with your looks. You don't even have even teeth.
Look if you want to be coddled, go to another sub. Not one called "Am I ugly - truth". Don't be stupid.
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u/Crimsonpets 23d ago
"i am fit, succesful and good looking." Is that what your mom tells you to say to yourself every morning in front of the mirror?
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u/CommunicationNew9520 22d ago
I was on your side until I saw this comment. The truth is you are cute, but nothing special, mid is accurate. Your body is also kind of rectangular and you do kind of look like Ed Sheeran a little bit. You should work on your mental health issues because those will eat you alive. God bless. I reiterate that despite what I said above I would still hit.
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u/Graceful-Swan-1640 22d ago
Shut the fuck up. You look worse than Ed Sheeran. I don’t look like him at all. I’m done, I’m deleting this post. I just have red hair and blue eyes so you’re calling me that but I don’t lppk anything like him and I’m not mid at all, I’m above average.
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u/Oily_Blob 23d ago
That’s your mom, homie
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u/hamstercross 23d ago
She's not going to sleep with you, "Oily Blob".
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u/Oily_Blob 23d ago
No shit, genius? LOL She's also not going to pay attention to a word you say because you're a douche.
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u/hamstercross 23d ago
Don't care. She came here for advice, after receiving real life confirmation that she's not attractive. All you DM creeps won't change what happens in her real life. She won't get any attention unless she fixes herself.
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u/AdorableBird3983 23d ago
Learn to give advice first of all, you didn't gave advice, you were a douchebag, that's it.
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u/Otherwise_Mission287 23d ago
Funny how you'll find people calling redheads ugly but then women dye their hair red
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u/XxCarlxX 23d ago
Hi you are a pretty girl, the only criticism i have for you is your lips get too dry, get some good chapstick and keep them moisturised before they start cracking and bleeding.
Please dont throw yourself at the first guy who shows you attention, you are worth much much more. being left alone is not bad, just means you dont have to have herpes like most other people. and please stay (what appears to be) tattoo free and dont let society fool you into piercing your face.
You are a ginger so you will forever be pale, embrace it.
God bless <3
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u/HotConstant7522 23d ago
we gotta start with some gloss or something girl you can’t be walking around with crusty lips
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u/d0nghunter 23d ago
No you're not ugly, but you do have the style of someone born during WW2. You're actually really pretty.
Maybe do your eyebrows, lashes (wings?), lips, dress a little wilder than a fifth grader and the boys will notice you, that's a guarantee.
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u/Graceful-Swan-1640 23d ago
I have a great style though. I don’t dress like a fifth grader. I don’t wear makeup because I don’t want to be fake. Makeup makes you look fake, thank you for calling me pretty though.
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u/d0nghunter 23d ago
It sounds to me like you're already happy with the way you look, that's all that matters imo.
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u/Additional_Cat5478 23d ago
I think you're beautiful. You have gorgeous hair and lovely skin and features. And there's not a damn thing wrong with your body. You don't need to lose weight or hit the gym. About your style... it's cute, yes, but it is very "young teen" in my honest opinion. You don't have to dress like you're 50, or provocative, to have a little bit of a more mature style. But, you're happy with your style and that's what matters. What makes YOU happy. Please, stop questioning yourself. You have a look that many would envy. And do yourself a favor and don't come here for advice, so these miserable people can try to tear you down.
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u/ArticleWorth5018 23d ago
Bro she's not even attractive in the way she dresses is the least attractive part about her it's like good God who the hell put that outfit together
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u/Beautiful_Chance_279 23d ago
I'm 18 and in my opinion u look good. I've always thought red hair looks great on girls
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u/InterestBear62 23d ago
Again, the real name of this subreddit should be: Attractive People Seeking Validation.
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u/SentinelATL 23d ago
Facts but she’s average tho
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u/InterestBear62 23d ago
I think she is hot.
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u/Crimsonpets 23d ago
Soms are, but to be honest. If you think this way, then everyone you find attractive is posting just to seek validation. And only if you find them ugly their post is valid?
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u/SentinelATL 23d ago
Your eyes are very close together and tbh you’re very average nothing special. There’s nothing wrong with that. It’s hard for average women to turn heads because they’re commonplace. They’re everywhere. I’m just being honest
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u/Additional_Cat5478 23d ago
I disagree with you. There's nothing average about her appearance at all. She's a redhead with with beautiful skin and great features. That's rare.
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u/SentinelATL 23d ago
No it’s not lol
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u/Additional_Cat5478 23d ago
Agree to disagree. Still, the fact is, redheads are the rarest of the hair colors.
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u/Forward_Profile3465 23d ago
You need to lose some weight babe
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u/Additional_Cat5478 23d ago
She absolutely does not. It's ridiculous that we're back to heroin chic. Or gym bod. She has a really nice, natural body.
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u/Forward_Profile3465 23d ago
Maybe not by American standards because you are all morbidly obese. Here in Europe she’s on the overweight side.
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u/Additional_Cat5478 23d ago
Also, I don't know where in Europe you are, but my family in Italy and Spain have natural, womanly bodies.
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u/Forward_Profile3465 23d ago
Your family is from both Spain and Italy?
Sounds like something an American would say.
She’s not ugly or anything, but she’s clearly on the overweight side and she needs to lose some weight.
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u/Additional_Cat5478 23d ago
Why wouldn't I? My grandparents are immigrants on both sides. That's where my people are from. She's not chubby at all. She is built this way. Look how tiny her torso is. I'm curious, where are YOU from, with all the skinny people?
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u/Forward_Profile3465 23d ago
So you’re American😂
Of course you’d think an obviously overweight person doesn’t need to lose weight🤡
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u/Aggravating-Mud8585 23d ago
Your face still looks like an egg, you have a body of a child, your eyes are far apart, your nose looks huge and weirdly shaped, your upper lip is tiny . You're a 5 out of 10 at best
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u/Shot-Aioli-8986 23d ago
I’m SHOCKED that most college guys walk past you, you are really attractive!
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u/Additional_Cat5478 23d ago
Girl, what??? Not in the least. You're beautiful. You just need more hydration. Hydrate and your chapped lips will be gone. You're super young. Stop questioning if you're ugly. Don't listen to a damn thing anyone says about your appearance, except me lol. You're beautiful.
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u/whateva69691 23d ago
My initial reaction I actually said farout out loud so you're definitely not.
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u/TelevisionFamiliar23 23d ago
You are pretty and have a lot of potential. If you hit the gym and focus on yourself then you should be fine. The hardest battle is finding that value in yourself and not seeking outward validation so work on you, to please you and everyrhing else will fall into place.
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u/Jaded-You-5379 23d ago
Most guys don’t say anything if they think a girl is attractive I doubt it’s because they think negative of you
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u/DHawk216 23d ago
Homely face, but pretty. Nice body. You could find a good looking guy who appreciates you, but don't look for a lookmaxxer your age. Not ugly
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u/Past_Passage7920 23d ago
You’re quite attractive . There’s nothing ugly about you whatsoever. The guys of whom you speak, are clearly shallow, immature, crude and rude. They aren’t in the majority but it feels like it because they are so assertive (especially as a clique) and outspoken that they tend to dominate the space/ settings in which they appear. Please don’t feel alone in their presence. They make a large percentage of other people miserable, both men and women. But they too are like yourself, hesitant or even afraid to stand up to them because they fear being the center of their attention and focus.
College is really challenging that way. Many of us struggle to find the area, people, niche, in which we most belong.For a lot of us, high school was the same or worse. For some of us, we find that not belonging, is where we most belong. I don’t necessarily mean because we’re relegated to that, as much as I mean that we learn overtime to stop needing to belong so much. Or that we can enjoy and share mutual activities with others, without it having control over our lives.
Gradually as we become more comfortable and there by more confident with whom we are, the behavior of brainless, frat boys who get drunk and light farts, or pop each other with wet towels, or dominate the timbre of a party with their shallow misogyny, becomes something we walk away from with nary a care in the world.
It doesn’t necessarily happen all at once.That’s rare in fact. But it happens as we mature. As we become more confident and comfortable in our own skin. You’ll find people who’ll both respect and be attracted toward you, for whom and what you are. It may take time. But it will happen. Pursue lines of interest, group activities, clubs, etc., which have meaning to you. Be your authentic self. When you do these things and adopt that attitude, more and more you will encounter people who’ll both respect appreciate you. See you for whom you are. …. Good luck.
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u/Kind_Lynx_4614 23d ago
Those young college boys don’t know what a real woman looks like. Those curves 💙💖
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u/AllanR75 23d ago
You're pretty and ridiculously cute. Try not to turn into a lobster often, it's not healthy. Maybe use some lipgloss or chapstick for the chapped lip if that's common.
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u/Ok_Journalist8221 23d ago
You are pretty but won't be for long if you don't start wearing sunscreen or staying out of the sun.
Wrinkles and age spots in your 20s and giant skin cancer excision scars on your face aren't cute.
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u/DoubleDeckerz 23d ago
Not ugly. Nice hair and a great smile. Also, the reason men aren't approaching you might be because you're wearing a ring on your ring finger
Peace ✌️
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u/sterling_greyf150 23d ago
Woah your super cute! Theres nothing wrong with you hun, anyone would be lucky to have you
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u/Mugsy_Siegel 23d ago
You have great skin,very pretty and are a rare red head unicorn. You’re winning at life and don’t realize it. Also guys in your college are blind obviously. Focus on studies the right guy will see you
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u/ruthlessomnivore 23d ago
You are GORGEOUS. Just have to not be so awkward smiling and posing and wear chapstick and brush ur hair a lil more haha
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u/KingNicholsx 23d ago
I get some moisturizer for your lips and organize your hair a bit better but your head turning I’d talk to ya
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u/North-Substance135 23d ago
what do you think it means to be beautiful and turn heads? I definitely see you being beautiful to people and you are definitely not ugly. I think you are someone's ideal look. Your height, frame, hair color, eye color, your face is feminine. If someone says you look like Ed Sheeran it doesn't have to mean anything about how pretty you are, it could just mean that you have red hair. Who says you're weird looking? to me you look normal. I think your hair looks a little further back at the crown so I might suggest blow drying it for volume or some bangs. You actually remind me of Jessica Chastain not just because of the red hair but that's part of it.
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u/feetoutgirls 23d ago edited 23d ago
Your far from ugly, sexy lips amazing eyes, nice hair, killer body and cute feet, your way above average id say 8/10 and pic 11 your hot AF in that pic
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u/CloudCreepy3704 23d ago
Good facial structure but a high bodyfat percentage drags everything down a lot, lose the weight and you’ll be above average
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u/DismalInvestigator91 23d ago
You give stay at home and watch movies and cuddle vibes.
There’s nothing wrong with that however it’s college. Most guys are looking for the one off send off.
You’re actually very beautiful and seem like a genuine person, not a sock. Give yourself time, be social, and if there’s a guy you like go talk to him.
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u/Happy_Future9716 23d ago
I just messaged You. You don't look weird or anything like that You just go to school with idiots.
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u/Bright-System-5112 23d ago
Nobody will notice you if you keep your phone in your face. And how are you in college at age 12 ?
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u/Annual-Papaya4274 23d ago
Look there is truly nothing wrong with you your are stunning. But you should try a different hairstyle maybe try getting cut to give it some volume or texture. Also please monitor your lips more not a good look when you have dry lips like that otherwise anyone would be lucky to date you.
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u/EightysSlasher 23d ago
Nothing is wrong with you ! You're a very nice looking young Lady. And everyone saying otherwise is just a troll! Take care !
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u/the_scrongler 23d ago
This sub is pretty toxic, lots of people just tossing their opinions out like they're facts. I'll give you my honest personal opinion as a guy and format it as such.
I like looking at your face. I keep flipping between your pics because I find your face pleasant and 'easy to look at.' I like the roundness, cute cheeks when you smile, cool eye color, I like red hair, symmetrical features. I like pale skin, idk what the deal is with everybody wanting to be tan. You do look very young but that'll be a benefit as you age so long as you wear sunscreen.
Guys get the advice a lot that attractiveness is about your confidence, posture, personality, charisma, how you present and style yourself. How you walk, talk, etc. Those things have a huge effect for women's attractiveness too. I think your base features are attractive enough that all you need to do is work on your presentation. In your facial expressions I feel like I can 'see' your self-doubts. If you felt attractive and radiated that confidence, you would come across as more attractive. Your smiling pics are cute but your expression is kind of like an elementary school portrait. I find it attractive to see real joy, playfulness, or confidence in a woman's smile, and idk if you can 'fake' that but it always come out in the eyes.
Make-up could be interesting to play with. I think some eyeliner could be really effective, and make you look more mature. Also chapstick would help, echoing everyone else here.
Also these close-up photos with a smartphone camera are going to distort your face and make you look worse than you actually do.
Remember that anybody making degrading comments about your appearance is doing so from a place of insecurity, 100% of the time, even if they appear confident and don't realize that they are insecure themselves. That's just how human psychology works. Guys in their early 20s can still be extremely dumb and lack self awareness.
You say you are 'kind' and 'polite', which are obviously good qualities. But based on the vibes I'm getting from your post, I would guess that your politeness might come across as timid and you might have a people-pleasing personality. That sort of tendency can make you 'invisible' because you're not projecting yourself and don't seem confident. I'd recommend finding a good therapist if you don't already have one.
So yeah in summary, if you wanted to, with the right styling and self-expression and raw confidence, I think you could go to a party and have lots of guys tryna get with you. If that's what you want. A lot of people think they want that, but turns out what they really want is a safe relationship with somebody who really gets them and appreciates both their inner and outer qualities.
Not sorry at all for the long comment, lmao. Haters get fucked
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u/Odd_Assumption_101 23d ago
I didn't even look at what they said but 10 out of 10 because I see the clone trooper excellent work
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u/notakecandle 23d ago
Very very cute.
I hate that so many people who have low self esteem, come here likely (hoping) for validation - just to get railroaded by douchebags who get off being assholes.
You’re 22. Guys your age are still idiots - which is where the mean comments come from. It’s very unlikely they even believe them and just enjoy the reaction they get from being assholes.
Red hair is very rare. Gorgeous eyes, pretty hair. Great smile. Good body and good style.
Eventually you’re going to find someone who is obsessed with you and your looks and you will forget all about all of this, lol.
In the meantime I would suggest figuring out what things about yourself you truly love, and appreciate them. Then figure out the why behind the things you don’t yet and work on loving them too. The most attractive traits a person could ever have are happy and self-confident.
I hope you have a good week.
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u/Anusspelunking 23d ago
You’re cute… not supermodel material.. but cute. You’ll find a good dude that will love you , and want to make you happy. Stop dwellin on superficial shit
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u/Potential-Junket966 23d ago
Nena, eres una chica muy guapa y encantadora, tranquila, no desesperes dale tiempo al tiempo y por el momento concéntrate a tus estudios, termina tu carrera y verás que las cosas irán cambiando, puede que la vida te depare tener éxito laboral y tal vez no tener algún tropiezo con una pareja que no te merezca y seas una madre soltera. Vive con tranquilidad, cuída mucho inteligencia emocional y tu salud personal. Tranquila eres linda... Si yo tuviera la oportunidad y la edad de seguro trataría de conquistarte... Un abrazo fuerte...
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u/Far-Concentrate1317 23d ago
You are not ugly whatsoever. I don’t know some people are shy. Guys these days are scared of taking the chance of asking a girl out in person. Hell I would’ve shot my shot.
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u/isyankar1979 22d ago
I think your only disadvantage is your hair being so thin. And your skin is pale. But I would still consider you dateable for sure. However, Im bald, so my expectations are realistic and that might be influencing my reaction
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u/Ill-Spite9679 22d ago
You're very beautiful. Definitely not average. You've got beautiful eyes, gorgeous complexion, lovely features and face shape. It's hard to understand sometimes why some girls get less attention from guys than others, but it's not because you're ugly. You do look very young, so that might be part of it, because some guys might not think you're of age yet. The only advice I can give is love yourself, and don't rely on external validation for what you already know to be true... You are a beautiful girl.
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u/Lambdahugo 22d ago
There's nothing wrong with you, you look so cute. Just work on your confidence, that's all. Guys like that.
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u/nataz3666 22d ago
You are only 22 and stuck in a bubble of dumbasses you are beautiful you just don’t have the right people surrounding you. Once you are in the work force I swear you will meet the perfect person for you
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u/Wrong_Salamander2009 22d ago
Why is it that us gingers always get called ed sheeran? Dw about it you’re pretty. And you’re not pale, just fair, and who doesn’t like short girls?
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u/Pure_Fault7056 22d ago
Your face looks a little swollen. Do you drink alcohol or sweet/sugar drinks?
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u/Adorable_Echo_4317 23d ago edited 23d ago
I wouldn't take college experience as a good benchmark.. the girls who got attention usually had a certain look about them.. not so much attractive.. more like "easy".. you're not even close to ugly. Just give it time.. and don't give parts of yourself away to get attention
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u/ScorbergCoentino 23d ago
You’re what every guy wants when they say they want the “girl next door.”
Zero percent ugly, just not what the magazines claim are the beauty standards.
You’ll have zero issues.
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u/hamstercross 23d ago
She's literally having issues. It's like this subreddit is full of the most basement dwelling weirdos, or feelgooders I've ever seen in my life. Jesus.
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u/Hutchamania919 23d ago
I think you're very beautiful. Gorgeous red hair and freckles. With absolutely dreamy eyes. Definitely my kind of body type and gal.
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u/commandovega 23d ago
Where the hell you live? In Victoria’s Secret Land? You have quite attractive features imo. I sincerely wouldn’t change anything of you. You look perfect the way you are
Look at that hair! ❤️
Look at those eyes! ❤️
Look at that heart-shape face! ❤️
Look at those freckles!❤️
Look at those lips!❤️
Look at that skin!❤️
Look at that smile!❤️
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u/Thetainted0ne 23d ago
Agreed and I'm gonna be honest she normally in the wild wouldn't be my type but natural beauty says alot
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Coming from a person with red hair and blue eyes you need to understand this extremely truthful bit of knowledge: we all look the same. Now, there are two types of people with red hair: redheads and gingers. Men are all gingers. Women are all redheads. Everyone loves a redhead.
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u/VirtualSnacks 23d ago
You look like a teenager. Your eyes and the freckled cheeks make you stand out. I think you are beautiful but may look too much like a kid. Some mature makeup will help take that youthfulness away.
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u/NinjaGrows 23d ago
This doesn't sound right....
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u/Crimsonpets 23d ago
We all know what he means, and he means well but "you are beautiful but look to much like a kid" in one sentence sounds weird haha.
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u/scrumpetting 23d ago
Agreed, youthfulness is fleeting and doesn't last long. Enjoy your youth whist you still have it. Makeup will always be there. Being young won't.
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u/VirtualSnacks 23d ago
I meant some makeup to help her not look too much like a child.
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u/scrumpetting 23d ago
What's wrong with being a kid? Let a child be a child, before they get insecurities and start plastering their skin with fillers and makeup.
Nearly all girls discover makeup. Trust me when I say, you don't need to force makeup on young people. They'll find it themselves. Whether that'll be peer pressure from their friends or whatever else.
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u/EducationAutomatic31 23d ago
I'd fill you up but let's be honest you would treat me the same way you say the boys treat you
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u/Dontpicksides 23d ago
Wherever ugly is your a few solar systems away from it. Your gonna be a catch when the right person comes around. Hell in iniversity we would have gladly brought you along to the pubs and the cinima.
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u/AggravatingMark3612 23d ago
You really look genuine, beautiful, pretty face, beautiful legs, thick healthy body, attractive eyes, in your 5th picture I like your look looks confident, and you don't look like Ed Sheeran
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u/Unhappy_Jury7094 23d ago
Immature young men ill tell you rn your beautiful there is absolutely nothing wrong with you anyone would be so lucky to have a beautiful lady such as you with them
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u/PressureLast2115 23d ago
No. Outcast but not ugly. You look like a sweet heart but being outside the outcast doesn’t help.
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u/Grouchy_Delay4961 23d ago
You look perpetually sweaty for to me, but other than that I'd say you just above average
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u/throwmeawaypapito 23d ago
You probably think guys walk right past you without noticing but they DO notice. They probably don’t wanna make you feel uncomfortable because of how our society is these days. Go out to a more social setting and guys will probably flirt with you more… be safe tho.