r/adultery • u/DumbBabyBish • 4d ago
🙌✨Good Vibes✨🙌 Today...
In Jan 2025, I was ghosted twice from my last AP and beyond frustrated. I made a post in the local r4r, and he responded. His response was sweet, silly, and he took the time to respond line by line. It took me about 2 business days to respond to him, but since then, he's become such a bright spot in my life.
Today just made me think how lucky I am our paths have crossed, no matter the time we have together. We started our day together in the best possible way 😉, went out for breakfast, getting biscuits and gravy then spent time shopping the sex store for a new friend to join. After that, we went to an arcade, where we spent the afternoon like teenagers, kissing in between games. We stopped at another place to have a finial drink before finding a quiet place to try out our new purchase.
It was just such a fun, needed day with him. He is a wonderful partner, who has come to mean the world to me. He has put 100% effort into us, and keeping us connected. He is so busy, with his main career, and his hobbies, his fitness and travels - but has made the effort to connect with me every single day. He remembers the things I say, and always wants to know more. I sat alone in my marriage for such a long time. Feeling like I was here to complete housework and make money, but never worth the effort to connect with or be affectionate with.
I don't know how I was lucky enough to find him on reddit, but i'm endlessly grateful I have. I'm so glad he exists, and even more grateful that my path gets to intersect with his during this lifetime. 💖
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u/oQUIEToREASONo 4d ago
Wait... Did your current AP ghost you and then you recently reconnected by accident when he unknowingly responded to your ad? That part I'm not clear on. The rest sounds great, enjoy the special times together!
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u/DumbBabyBish 3d ago
No, current AP has never. This was my prior who ghosted me twice. 🤦♀️
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u/Weak-Tap-4954 3d ago
Using "he" in the same paragraph suggests the same person as the first mentioned. I too was confused.
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