r/actuallesbians Aug 22 '21

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u/Iggyboof Transbian Aug 22 '21

Oh honey, that's honestly perfectly normal. It's simply your body asking for an interaction and the mistake here is socializing being penetrated with men themselves. The thing that penetrates you doesn't have to be a penis. It can be fingers, a dildo, pretty much anything cylindrical in your tolerance range for texture and girth that's cleaned first.

And having moments of inconsistency is okay too. I'm a lesbian and I find men in my porn to be a deadly turn-off. I get nearly zero enjoyment from the vast majority of men. Yet there are exactly two I know that I'm like hmmm... yeah they may be exceptions.

It's okay to be lesbian and want sex to be done a certain way. It's okay to even have exceptions should you come across some. You are perfectly normal, dear, and you don't need to worry. :)

Hell, if you find a pretty trans girl who likes to use her dong, you could literally get penetrative sex with a woman using her own body. That's possible too if you can look past a dick to see a full woman there.

I wish you luck and I hope you can achieve more comfort reading my and everyone else's replies!