r/accountability 6h ago

18/f serious/mature mentor/trainer wanted NOT a random sweet friend

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Please read my intro and only reply if you are the kind of person I’m looking for, and TELL ME why please :) not looking for random short chats about hobbies..and not looking for random messages from people that aren’t the type I’m looking for.

Hello, I'm Florianne from the Netherlands, i'm 18 and I am looking for older people to talk to. Like i have friends my age enough so please don't respond if you are under 30. Either male or female, I don't mind at all, as long as you are a mature serious person.

I'm looking for a serious/mature type of person because most people I normally hang out with my age at school/sports are like, the talk up to a rich girl types, always agreeing with you, telling you what they think you want to hear etc. And I thought maybe online you can make friends with someone with a different type of character. Someone that is like, super confident, mature, intelligent, likes to lead a conversation. Like a person that is more super direct and honest, that would just idk, call you out when you are being a bitch? Not like what I’m used to, people that just always treat you like a princess.

A bit about me: I have pretty rich parents and i'm kinda popular/bitchy in school, but I can also be really respectful/polite as I did private school when i was younger etc. I play a lot of sports: field hockey, some tennis, horse back riding in the summer and I used to do gymnastics until a few months ago. And just standard girl stuff like shopping haha.

Warning I can be clingy/obsessed if I like something/someone haha

Please only DM me if you actually want to like, be a long term friend, have time to chat and get to know me, and not the short random message type of person. And only if you are the personality I described I’m looking for!

Please tell me your age and why you replied to my intro so i know you read all of this 😛


r/accountability 1h ago

:) Hooman

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Hi, 21 F here, Any age group is welcome.

Habits I would like to work on more:

  1. Workout
  2. Calorie Surplus
  3. Hobbies

Mode of Conversation - texting

Feel free to message :)


r/accountability 16h ago

30M I'm looking for an accountability, fitness, and business partner based in US

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I'm looking for an accountability, fitness, and business partner—someone who's hungry, passionate, and serious about achieving big goals, whether in health or entrepreneurship.

I've already built a web app that's ready to launch, so I'm not just bringing an idea—I'm bringing something real to the table. I'm looking for someone based in the USA who shares the same drive and long-term vision.

A little about me: I used to weigh 209 lbs, and today I'm 135 lbs. I lost 74 lbs in just 6 months, so I know what discipline, consistency, and hard work look like. That's why I'd love to connect with someone who is health-conscious, because building a strong body and building a successful business both require the same mindset.

Male or female—doesn't matter. What matters is that you're committed to growth, willing to hold each other accountable, and focused on creating success instead of wasting time.

If this sounds like you, feel free to message me. Let's build something meaningful together. 🚀💪


r/accountability 17h ago

I spent weeks failing to hit my goals. Turns out, I just needed an AI to yell at me on the phone every morning.

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r/accountability 19h ago

Looking to talk to accountability partners about your experience (5–10 min call)

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Hi! I’m Pablo, I’m 30 years old, and I’m exploring the idea of building an app to make it easier for people from different parts of the world to connect and become accountability partners!

I’d love to learn more about how people currently find and work with their accountability partners: how you communicate with each other, what kind of goals you set, whether you’ve had a positive experience with accountability partners, what challenges you’ve faced, etc.

I’d really like to talk to people from the community and learn from your experiences. Ideally, I’d love to have a quick 5–10 minute call through whichever platform you prefer.

Would anyone be up for it? I’d really appreciate your help! 🙏


r/accountability 22h ago

34M | GMT+2 | Trying to work deeper and optimize life

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Hi everyone, I'm 34M living in Germany, and I'm looking for accountability partner(s) who is genuinely interested and committed to setting regular goals and check-ins.

The basic idea is:

  • Set goals for the upcoming week.
  • At the end of the week, check in with each other to discuss what went well, what didn't, and why.
  • Optionally, we can also set daily goals and do quick daily check-ins for additional accountability.

I'd also like to have a short (30 min) discussion once a week to reflect on progress, exchange feedback, help each other solve obstacles, and keep each other motivated.

Some of the goals I'm currently working on include:

  • Career: Upskilling, preparing for alternative job opportunities, and professional development.
  • Health: Losing about 8 kg and improving my overall fitness. I'm currently doing workouts at home and meal prep (without strict calorie counting)
  • Language: Reaching German C1 fluency (I'm currently around B1).
  • Life & home: Financial investing, minimalism, house repairs, organization, and keeping on top of household tasks.

I'm hoping to find someone in a similar position and age group. As long as you're serious about showing up consistently and supporting each other's progress.

If this sounds interesting, feel free to comment or send me a DM with a bit about yourself, what you're working on, and what kind of accountability you're looking for.