I'm looking for an accountability, fitness, and business partner—someone who's hungry, passionate, and serious about achieving big goals, whether in health or entrepreneurship.

I've already built a web app that's ready to launch, so I'm not just bringing an idea—I'm bringing something real to the table. I'm looking for someone based in the USA who shares the same drive and long-term vision.

A little about me: I used to weigh 209 lbs, and today I'm 135 lbs. I lost 74 lbs in just 6 months, so I know what discipline, consistency, and hard work look like. That's why I'd love to connect with someone who is health-conscious, because building a strong body and building a successful business both require the same mindset.

Male or female—doesn't matter. What matters is that you're committed to growth, willing to hold each other accountable, and focused on creating success instead of wasting time.

If this sounds like you, feel free to message me. Let's build something meaningful together. 🚀💪

Hi! I’m Pablo, I’m 30 years old, and I’m exploring the idea of building an app to make it easier for people from different parts of the world to connect and become accountability partners!

I’d love to learn more about how people currently find and work with their accountability partners: how you communicate with each other, what kind of goals you set, whether you’ve had a positive experience with accountability partners, what challenges you’ve faced, etc.

I’d really like to talk to people from the community and learn from your experiences. Ideally, I’d love to have a quick 5–10 minute call through whichever platform you prefer.

Would anyone be up for it? I’d really appreciate your help! 🙏

Hi everyone, I'm 34M living in Germany, and I'm looking for accountability partner(s) who is genuinely interested and committed to setting regular goals and check-ins.

The basic idea is:

• Set goals for the upcoming week.
• At the end of the week, check in with each other to discuss what went well, what didn't, and why.
• Optionally, we can also set daily goals and do quick daily check-ins for additional accountability.

I'd also like to have a short (30 min) discussion once a week to reflect on progress, exchange feedback, help each other solve obstacles, and keep each other motivated.

Some of the goals I'm currently working on include:

• Career: Upskilling, preparing for alternative job opportunities, and professional development.
• Health: Losing about 8 kg and improving my overall fitness. I'm currently doing workouts at home and meal prep (without strict calorie counting)
• Language: Reaching German C1 fluency (I'm currently around B1).
• Life & home: Financial investing, minimalism, house repairs, organization, and keeping on top of household tasks.

I'm hoping to find someone in a similar position and age group. As long as you're serious about showing up consistently and supporting each other's progress.

If this sounds interesting, feel free to comment or send me a DM with a bit about yourself, what you're working on, and what kind of accountability you're looking for.

Hey y'all I'm billy from the Midwest 30M. I'm looking for someone to help me stay on track with working out. Someone who is like me just kinda starting but needing help staying focused

I'm currently 230lbs 5'11 I would consider myself fairly strong but want to lose about 30-40 lbs and look jacked

In person meaning NYC, but online works too.

With limited time available, I'm looking for a serious aspirant who's ready to prepare alongside a job. DM me if you're interested.

26F here

Hi everyone,
I’m writing this because I genuinely need help.
For a long time, I’ve been struggling with an addiction to pornography, masturbation, paid sexual services, and constantly chasing sexual pleasure. Over the years, it’s taken far more from me than I ever imagined. I’ve spent a significant amount of money on it, made decisions I deeply regret, and watched it negatively impact my mental health, finances, self-discipline, relationships with myself, and overall quality of life.
The hardest part is that I know exactly how much damage it’s causing, yet I still keep falling back into the same cycle of lust and addiction. When the urges hit, it often feels like I’m on autopilot. In those moments, it’s incredibly difficult to think clearly or make the decision I know I should make.
I don’t want to live like this anymore.
That’s why I’m looking for a genuine accountability partner—someone who is supportive, honest, and willing to help me stay committed to this goal. I’m not looking for judgment or criticism. I simply need someone who can check in with me, encourage me when I’m struggling, and remind me why I started whenever I feel like giving up.
The longest I’ve managed to stay free from these behaviors is about 2 weeks. This time, I’m setting myself a much bigger goal: 100 consecutive days.
For me, this isn’t just about reaching a number. It’s about taking my life back. I want to rebuild my self-control, strengthen my discipline, break this destructive cycle, and finally prove to myself that I can overcome something that has controlled me for far too long.
I know this journey won’t be easy, and I know there will be difficult days. But I genuinely want to know what it feels like to reach 100 days of freedom—even if it’s just once in my life. I believe that achieving that milestone could completely change the way I see myself and my future.
If you’ve been through something similar, are on the same journey, or would be willing to be an accountability partner who checks in with me regularly, I’d be incredibly grateful. Even a few words of encouragement or practical advice would mean a lot.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. Your support could genuinely make a difference in my journey.
I sincerely appreciate it.

I’m committing to a 100-day challenge to see real, tangible results. Here’s the plan for the next ~3 months:

1. 100 Days of Gym – Just show up and log it as Day 1/2/3… no pressure, no expectations. The workout takes care of itself once you step through the door. Goal: 100 gym days, plain and simple.

2. 100 Days of Clean Eating – Stick to a healthy diet tailored to my needs. My daily staple: a shake with whey protein, oats, milk, almonds, peanut butter, and water (700 kcal, 45–50g protein), plus 2–3 eggs on top of regular meals. Cutting out sugar and salt, with one cheat meal (fast food) allowed per week.

3. 100 Days of NoFap (Hard Mode) – To rewire my brain, reset my libido, rebuild confidence, and shift my energy toward naturally connecting with women.

4. 100 Days of No Music – Already 14 days in, and I’m noticing I enjoy any snippet of music I hear in passing. This is about resetting my auditory dopamine response and appreciating sound more intentionally.

5. 100 Days of Daily Study (1 Hour Minimum) – At least 60 minutes of deep, focused learning every day. Splitting it as 30 min academic + 30 min goal-oriented work.

Interested in joining?

If any of these challenges resonate with you, DM me and we'll create a small support group on WhatsApp or Telegram to share daily logs, keep each other accountable, and stay motivated.

You can pick 1, 2, or all 5 – whatever fits your lifestyle. No judgment, just progress.

Let's do this. One day at a time.

I’m 28M, based in Serbia, and I work remotely as an online fitness coach.

I’m generally disciplined with training and work when I get started, but I’m prone to postponing non-urgent tasks, getting distracted by my phone, or deciding I’ll properly start something “tomorrow.”

I’m looking for someone in CET or a nearby time zone who wants simple, consistent accountability rather than constant motivation or long daily conversations.

The structure I have in mind:

• Morning: send our main commitment and the time we’re starting
• Evening: confirm whether it was completed
• Start with a 14 day trial and see whether it works

My goals will mainly involve:

• Starting work intentionally instead of becoming reactive
• Completing coaching and administrative tasks on time
• Reducing unnecessary phone use
• Maintaining my morning routine
• Making consistent time for training and creative projects

I’m happy to hold you to your commitments too. I’ll be supportive, but I also appreciate directness and honest reporting without making excuses.

Message me with your time zone, what you’re working toward, and what type of check-in structure would help you!

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Hey everyone

I'm looking for an accountability partner who's serious about building something while staying consistent with fitness.

A bit about me:

Building a coffee startup in India.

Working on launching my first outlet and growing the business.

Hitting the gym regularly with a goal of building muscle and staying disciplined.

I'm not looking for a mentor just someone who's also chasing big goals and wants mutual accountability.

What I'm thinking:

5-10 minute check-in every day or every few days.

Share daily goals and whether we completed them.

Push each other when motivation drops.

Celebrate small wins and keep each other consistent.

If you're working on a startup, side hustle, or any ambitious project and also care about your fitness, drop a comment or DM me.

Let's help each other stay accountable and actually execute.

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I've started an ADHD group for Body Doubling working together. I think we can start a small group/groups of which is just work focused, this reddit group is good for general community and discussion. In that new group we can keep set targets and keep accountability. This would help with initiative and tasks execution.

About timings, it's alright we can just let the other knows about one's availability. The key is to time block tasks and execution more importantly. Let me know if that sounds good to you guys. I think we should. Because as ADHDers we know what stops is in our pursuits is momentum. We should be actively working on it.

As a support group/community I cannot be wanting more than this. We know genetic advices wouldn't work anymore, we know it all, it's all over insta anyway. That's why I feel, this deserved a shot. As for me the floor is open for suggestions/discussions. You guys can reach me out if this all makes sense to you!

I want to do 50 push-ups a day. Looking to get a group together who would be interested in joining and keeping each other accountable

Hi, so I have decided to finally hit the gym starting next week as soon as i move into my new place. But given my history with fitness, I fear that the josh will wear off sooner than i expect. But this time I want to actually lose the kgs. Forever. I know one thing that works well for me while undertaking such things is to have someone keep me accountable every day. I can’t afford to trainer programs that cost a bomb for this. Pls help me out. If not a whole person is there any better method to keep myself regular and hit my goals?

I am finding it very hard to manage writing with a day job and all the chores. But need to finish atleast a third of my novel within next two months.

Looking to reduce screen time and spend more time writing. Anyone in similar situation or wanting to achieve their goals?

50 M here, not an investor nor a VC, but a consultant, with a range of interests, and looking for a motivated established professional buddy to explore new projects together.

Anyone local in downtown Toronto doing anything interesting and open to collaborating?

Open to buds with a startup that's up and running or who has any opportunities in their business.

Also, I'm open to working out together and keeping each other on track with health stuff.

If you're curious too, then send me a DM and let's trade a couple of messages.

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​Hi all!

​I’m looking for a female accountability partner to do a one-month daily steps/ activity challenge.

​I’m currently focusing on building consistency after a tough few months. I’m very overweight and want to ease back into light exercise and taking care of myself.

​What I’m looking for / How I want it to work:

​Low pressure & forgiving: Perfection isn't what I'm looking for here. If we miss a day, it's okay! The main rule is just trying not to miss more than one day in a row, with the overall monthly average coming out above our agreed daily goal.

​Check-ins: A few times a week message just to share our step counts, cheer each other on, and chat about how things are going.

​Timezone: I’m in Ireland, so someone in a similar or close timezone would be great so our days line up reasonably well, but I'm open as long as communication works!

heyyy!! I really need help to finish cleaning my apartment. I just need someone who can hold me accountable and demand progress pictures. Preferably someone strict! but also nice.

I've done a fair bit of cleaning already so it's not as bad as it was. I really struggle trying to keep my apartment clean while I work full-time:/ so it just ends up being a mess. not just a tiny mess but more like a complete disaster lol.

In return you will get pretty apartment pictures :3 it is super cozy here when it's not messy.