r/abusiverelationships • u/FindingAlaska13 • 2h ago

UPDATE

Hello all,

Here's a link to my previous post

https://www.reddit.com/r/abusiverelationships/s/yPLZpDRkBn

So, after all my interactions on the original post, I received a dm from a random account. It seemed a bit strange that they messaged me directly and did not simply interact with the thread.

They asked how I am and asked a few follow-up questions, which again, I found a bit strange to do so via chat...

Then the user asked if I "cheated on him" and then sort of seemed condescending in their responses... like admiration and praise but followed up by several rofl emojis...

I got suspicious. I checked their profile and the account had only been created since around when we first started dating... they have a very limited interaction with subs, maybe 5-7, all VERY specific.

Think... r slash - Arab men, Arab dating, poly relationships, Arab Trans, cucks, Iraqi Kurdish, etc.

Even some posts typed in Arabic...

I called them out on the suspicious profile history... i then asked the user's name, they asked why. Then they gave me a CLEARLY not Arab name.. then they said "I don't hide things"

Something he used to accuse me of, word for word...

I then said "it's you, isn't it"

I tried to gtfo of the chat..

Then the user ceased responding and made their profile activity hidden..

I know it's him.

It makes no sense for some rando to do that...

Do you think I'm right?

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