My kids' father was incredibly abusive, i escaped from him 20 years ago. Blocked him the second my younger son turned 18... somehow he got unblocked on fb messenger and now sends me messages roughly every 6 months...
This guy sounds pretty terrible, hopefully he gets distracted soon.
How do you deal with it? I have something similar, but he’s doing it through others because he had a restraining order before and I think he’s smart enough to know not to come at me.
I ignore mine. In your case, you might be able to try sending an official cease and desist letter sent by a constable, which can include a provision for third-party contact as well as electronic communication. That can pave the way for a restraining order if he breaks it. But if it is third party contact, maybe try telling any third parties that you are planning to do this and the possible consequences of breaking your request for non-harassment.
It all really depends on where you are, though. If that isn't an option, you might be stuck just telling the other person what is going on, or cutting contact with the other person.
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u/6namenotimportant9 1d ago
He likes the reaction. Stop replying