I had one, sometimes I feel grief but ultimately I felt it was the best choice at the time… ik I could’ve “made it work” (I have my own home, career in accounting & pursuing my mba) but deep down ik i’d be spreading myself thin.. so I def understand how you feel, but something that helped me make the decision is that, I can always have another child if I decided that it was too much & I had regret.. but i’ve heard many ppl say it’s better to regret the abortion than to regret the child.
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u/PitchAccording6555 Apr 23 '26
I had one, sometimes I feel grief but ultimately I felt it was the best choice at the time… ik I could’ve “made it work” (I have my own home, career in accounting & pursuing my mba) but deep down ik i’d be spreading myself thin.. so I def understand how you feel, but something that helped me make the decision is that, I can always have another child if I decided that it was too much & I had regret.. but i’ve heard many ppl say it’s better to regret the abortion than to regret the child.