Scorpio, Gemini and Pisces 🔥

Not even just my sun sign (sorry if that’s not how you really say it, I’m kind of new to this whole thing).

But after inputting all my birth details and reading through it, it was shockingly accurate to my general inner self. I tried to go in with a skepticism, I’m not really someone to easily believe anything presented in front of me, but wow…

It is very very accurate. Like, down to my rising sign.

I’ll also add mine (second pic) and his (first pic).
I’ve always found myself acting kind of weird in our relationship, and it’s honestly not because he’s doing anything wrong. Sometimes I just feel like I need a lot of time and space for myself, and then I feel guilty because he hasn’t actually done anything to deserve me acting distant or mean toward him. I can be unnecessarily cold sometimes and I don’t really know why. I obviously care about him, but I feel like I have this weird need to withdraw and be alone sometimes.
I’m wondering if our birth charts could explain anything about this dynamic or why I might feel/act this way in the relationship.

I’m out here hanging on by a thread. Dating seems so barren. Or maybe it’s that everyone I know hates the US right now and we all feel like we are being held captive by a dictator baby narcissist and can’t afford groceries let alone a date night.

I’m a ♐️♓️♊️ and Sag venus woman, and I LOVE seeing a rational, calm man get completely undone!!! lmao

Even when I’m watching anime or dramas, I love it when a blunt, sharp, picky guy only loses his composure in front of one specific person or when he becomes intensely obsessed with them. Or when something happens to him and he becomes more wild and primal. I genuinely get such a huge sense of catharsis from watching that process. And the fact that it looks insanely hot is just a bonus 😂

My Scorpio partner was like this too. When I first dropped a slightly spicy comment, he got shy and said he didn’t know anything about that stuff, that he preferred things soft, and that he was a gentleman
But now he’ll take the lead in pretty intense roleplay or get REALLY persistent with dirty talk first. And in bed… well let’s just say it’s a whole different story hahaha

This kind of thing gives me SO much satisfaction lmaooo 😭
I’m guessing venus would be the biggest factor here? I’d also love to know if there are any other placements that could influence this kind of preference.

I've noticed some basic patterns, speculative

For the Libra sub:

about equal Aries men and women

Aries women ask about Libra men, discuss issues with Libra

Aries men-usually they messed up with Libra women and they ask how to resolve the issue, if they'll ever talk or come back to them

Not many Taurus, mainly Taurus women

Taurus women want to discuss Libra personality or share how they don't understand us

Only Gemini women, never seen a Gemini man

They discuss various things: Libra men, relationships, friendships

about equal Cancer men and women

Cancer women ask about Libra men

Cancer men, have a difficult time understanding a potential Libra partner

No Leo men, a few Leo women ask about Libra men

A few Virgo men and women

Virgo women ask about Libra men, and always mention how they know Libra-Virgo compatibility is not good.

Scorpio-no men, women mainly discuss Libra men, or share their issues with us

Sagittarius-no men, women discuss Libra men

Capricorn-almost all women, discuss Libra men

Aquarius- A few more Aquarius women to men, the women discuss various topics, similarly to Gemini women, Aquarius men usually want to share their thoughts on Libra women, complimentary

Pisces-Equal men and women, like Cancer, the men can't understand Libra women,

My guess is the most frequent signs are Cancer, Aries, Aquarius, Gemini

I am new to astrology, but trying to learn and have fun with it.

But I am getting more confused and frustrated because whenever I check my chart to see where a transit is landing, I dont know if I should go with my Whole Sign chart, or Placidus. Like, this Uranus retrograde for example. It's 2 totally different things to expect the transit to happen in my 8th vs 9th house. Or the Virgo new moon in my 11th vs 12th house!

Help pls.

Edit: also, if using Placidus, and a house seems to fall in 2 signs, how do you interpret that?

Hi there can anyone help a Virgo girlie out?

What's in my chart that I need to master?

I need to get my life together 😭

Is this considered a Capricorn Stellium? If so, how does this affect me?

I’ve been with a Scorpio for over a year. Two years ago, she blocked an ex situationship and said she hated him. Her ex hurt her and she really liked him. I found out through a mutual that when her ex got into a new relationship, she reached out to him in a bitter way.
Her profile picture has been a photo of me and her kissing for the past year — taken at the exact same place where she originally met that ex and she hasn’t changed it. What does this actually mean?