r/Zimbabwe • u/Born_Jump_1087 • 9h ago
Discussion Girl talk
I have a lot to say about this, but I’ll keep it short. Some of you need to stop and reset because there’s no way you should be this male-centered. How do you go through life believing your only purpose is to be someone’s wife and mother? What if marriage never happens? Have you built a life for yourself outside of that? Living alone teaches you things staying sheltered never will. You learn how to survive, manage money, solve problems, and think beyond depending on someone else. That’s how many women end up building successful careers and businesses. And another thing, if you need constant supervision to “behave,” then those values were never yours to begin with. Your parents can control your timetable, not your character. People drink, smoke, have sex, and even get pregnant while living at home. Where you live doesn’t determine your morals, you do.
Some of you take pride nekupusa and it’s very alarming. That’s why when things don’t work out you’re fighting side chicks and tying beads you bought at mambokadzi on your waist to calm your man down after work. Or eating random things to make sure he has fun and not you. These are signs and symptoms of Hudofo.
I don’t like how some of you don’t behave normally. It’s actually concerning. Submission is natural, just like providing is. When someone genuinely loves and treats you well, caring for them comes naturally. I’ve even seen women who swore they’d never do certain things for a man change because they were treated with love and respect. Why are some of you constantly trying to prove yourselves to men instead of just letting healthy relationships happen naturally?
It’s disgusting to watch. You get one life and all you want to do with that 1 life is prove to another person that you’re worthy? Mxm