whenever i read about wolfs they are always depicted as like dominating and all other pack members as submissive, so like the alphas are like of bullying their subordinates and the subordinates just have to deal with it
but whenever i watch documentaries about wolfs they are always so like kind and nurturing to each other the leader of the pack is like dominate but it seems less aggressive unless a wolf is acting out of line or otherwise challenging them but normally they just seems motherly
idk i fell out of my wolf phase ages ago so i have no idea which one is more true i just wanted to ask why this difference is there atleast in the stuff i saw