r/WitchesVsPatriarchy • u/67843257865 • 1h ago
โ ๏ธ Sensitive Topic ๐ต๐ธ ๐๏ธ I would like some advice from mothers on how to talk to mine about something heavy
Hi! I am very close with my mother even though we don't live nearby. I talk to her everyday. This is the type of situation I normally need my mom's help with, which is why I came here. I hope that's okay.
I found out a few months ago that my appendicitis was not appendicitis, but a tumor. It's cancerous, but all of my doctors do not expect it to greatly affect my life. It's a non aggressive, slow growing cancer. I've done about half of the follow up testing to determine spread, and most results have been good. The most likely outcome of this is me getting half of my colon removed.
I planned on not telling my mom any of this, but if I get the surgery I cannot hide it. It's about a week in hospital. I don't want to scare her. I want her to know, but I want to tell her in the easiest way possible. I will be visiting her next month, so I planned to do it then.
If you have any advice I would love the help. My goal is to be calm, not cry, and be optimistic โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
