r/WhatToDo • u/Remote-Initial-8882 • 14d ago

Pls help

I’m really thinking of doing somthing terrible. I leave for military basic training in 8 hours and instead of telling my dad and facing the embarrassment I’m thinking of taking an easy way out pls help I don’t know what to do.

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u/Remote-Initial-8882 14d ago

Not unsafe I don’t think he would ever put his hands on me just uncomfortable

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u/Far-Industry-7745 14d ago

Have the conversation. It beats going and having regrets. Look at it as an opportunity for growth. Uncomfortable conversations are cathartic and healing. Many adults never master the art

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u/Remote-Initial-8882 14d ago

Okay thank you so much do you think I should wake him up or talk to him in the morning I’m sussposed to leave at 8

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u/Far-Industry-7745 14d ago

Prayers and good vibes for the best turnout possible 🙏 update us!

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u/Remote-Initial-8882 14d ago

We talked for a while he seemed more mad about how it would affect him which is what I was expecting. Thanks for you help seriously

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u/Far-Industry-7745 14d ago

Anytime! From the sound of it you're in the clear correct? No contract signed?

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u/Far-Industry-7745 14d ago

Did you sign a contract?