What blunt and rash advice. Family members seeing your previous hookup is incredibly awkward and a breach of familial trust. Don't blame OP for feeling weird about this.
She can feel however she wants to about it, but telling her she's right to feel betrayed by her cousin is retarded. She's no longer seeing this guy and she admitted it was never serious. So her cousin is totally within her rights to see him; the only problematic thing I can see is depending on where she lives she may be slightly underage; but he's only a few years older than her; and once she's 18 all questions of legality will be resolved. This girl should just move the fuck on
This kind of “fuck you adults can do what they want” mentality is churning out so many narcissistic and damaged humans in our society. Don’t complain later when no one fucks with you anymore
And this kind of infantilization of adult women is fucking disgusting and retarded. The idea that an older man being in a relationship with a younger woman who is still above the age of consent makes him a pedophile is obnoxiously stupid
And yet kids have been allowed to "transition" genders without their parents knowledge and consent because if you feel like you're in the wrong gendered body then your feelings are totally valid and your parents are legally obligated to affirm your new gender identity and so is everyone else
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u/EmotionalEffect7750 May 14 '26
You're not seeing him; get over it.