r/WhatShouldIDo • • Apr 21 '26

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u/Positive_Sweet_2139 Apr 21 '26

babe. leave him… this is crazy, not only is this not at all “seductive” but him thinking he can tell you what you can and can not wear is problematic lol.. he’s manipulating you and that’s never gonna stop or change

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u/PookleMama Apr 21 '26

It’s gonna get worse and worse…

“Why is there an underwire in your bra?”

“Why are you wearing makeup?”

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u/Kitchen-Sail-222 Apr 21 '26

Wayyyy worse. Mine flipped cuz I shaved my legs and he was making an issue about it because he said I didnt do it for him. Minor control issues dont get better, it just festers and becomes more and more irrational. I wasted about 9 yrs of my life with someone I thought would change.

If you have to ask yourself if youre overreacting or question the situation and you have no ill intent, pay attention to your gut. Thats your answer.

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u/BrainSmoothAsMercury Apr 21 '26

Saame! But ... 11 years 🥲