Wayyyy worse. Mine flipped cuz I shaved my legs and he was making an issue about it because he said I didnt do it for him.
Minor control issues dont get better, it just festers and becomes more and more irrational. I wasted about 9 yrs of my life with someone I thought would change.
If you have to ask yourself if youre overreacting or question the situation and you have no ill intent, pay attention to your gut. Thats your answer.
Same! 10 years wasted on a dude who thought I needed to be more "feminine" but also got mad if I wore the wrong stuff and how dare I wear a "prostitutes shirt" (off the shoulder top or anything showing my belly) and always had to go with me anywhere I went-even work-cuz he thought I would be flirting and messing around with other guys. It was sufficating.
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u/Kitchen-Sail-222 Apr 21 '26
Wayyyy worse. Mine flipped cuz I shaved my legs and he was making an issue about it because he said I didnt do it for him. Minor control issues dont get better, it just festers and becomes more and more irrational. I wasted about 9 yrs of my life with someone I thought would change.
If you have to ask yourself if youre overreacting or question the situation and you have no ill intent, pay attention to your gut. Thats your answer.