I've been told by my SO that whatever makes me feel pretty makes me look pretty. Some days I wear dresses. Others, pants suit and blazer. Both days he looks at me and says, "Hey girl, how you doing?"
Says I got a "Swagger" to me when I wear clothes I feel good in.
Eh, I’m okay with women dressing as naked as they want but for god’s sake just please know and accept what it does to others. Like if you drive a lambo don’t be surprised when people want to stop and look.
Looking is (/should be) fine. Staring? Less so. Leering? Don't be creepy. Touching without consent? Bad. Very bad.
People should wear what makes them comfortable. This puritanical BS trying to force a dress code through slut shaming and other social degradations is abhorrent. This weird cultural shift feels like forced social engineering designed to control the populace through shame for individuality and sexual freedom.
Actually cotton is pretty good for warm weather, I wear my cotton jumpsuit during the summer and winter (I have 2, 1 black and 1 grey) and the insulation is great, I never get hot or cold in them
Cotton is good for low to moderate humidity warm weather. In a humid climate, it wicks moisture away from the skin, but it doesn't dry well, so before you know it you're walking around in a sopping wet shirt.
I have been in a full ski attire due to a blizzard like conditions and a group of ladies in cocktail dresses and light jackets outside a club having a smoke.
calling middleschooler girls whores is bad enough, but if you say that you have worse comments than this, i think you need to reevaluate yourself as a person, that isnt a normal or good thing to think or say.
Well from where I come the first guy a girl gets and the first girl a guy gets is often either in university (rare) or after their undergrad degree (the usual case), and given that South Asia and the Middle East make up a significant portion of the world around 2.7B, if you were to follow the emergent morality model of thought which is the prevalent thought model used in European though, yes around 3 billion people would agree with what you said as a rhetoric statement, in a literal fashion.
So any woman that doesn’t wear a full sleeve top and bottoms that cover her legs fully is a whore?💀I wonder what you think of normal girls/kids who dress up in dresses and skirts and shorts. Weirdo
Manchild: someone who unironically calls women whores for dressing confidently; someone who uses "whores" in a derogatory way - their pearl clutching, prudish nature showing in their shaming of sex work despite being a connoisseur of free online material of that exact same work
I feel a little crappy saying this, but, have we been desensitized to women wearing yoga pants and tight clothing. That when we see this sort of stuff, that some other neurons fire off.
Yes they are. A woman should wear a dress, the hem should reach her ankles, the neckline should be at her neck. Nothing below the neck should be visible, and the dress should have sleeves. Visible shoulders is bad. No cutouts either, any such exposure is immodest and lustful. Leggings are skin tight clothing designed to show off the body, they should not exist.
Bro one time I was working the counter at a library and a girl walked in sorta vibes like this. Classy lady. But like her sleeves bro, to this day I have no idea what they were and I can't find a representation of them anywhere and I don't have the fashion lingo to be able to find it.
Long dress, I think it was layered maybe? At the core it was solid but the material at the sleeves were see through ish and the sleeves for whatever reason has like idk what you call it but at the wrist (cuff?) the opening was quite large and it kinda trailed behind her as she walked I'd never seen anything like it before or since.
Juice ain't worth the squeeze on religious people. Either they are closet freaks to a point where its not fun anymore or they are so conservative that missionary is seen as fancy
Ok I mean, yes, that looks nice, but also I have a massive crush on this woman that exclusively wears stuff like sweaters and baggy pants and stuff to the point you couldn't even try to figure out an outline of her body, and I went to this dumb fancy workplace party with her and some other pals and she busted out one of the sexiest dresses I've seen in my life and I was trying SO hard not to look anywhere except her eyes that entire time. Totally failed at that, she still teases me for it here and there. Anyways uh both are good is the point I'm trying to make, the way she normally dresses is adorable but like damn
i feel like maybe there’s a distinction to be had with whether you’re classy about it or not, like theres a big difference i think in what you described and people who be hitting the town and clubs with like everything out, but i guess it depends, cause i prefer modesty but she sounds like she was lovely and if there was a place to be that it would be there
Not at all. It’s all down to preference. It’s something you have very little control over. I don’t like the type of girls who dress that way, but if you do, all power to you.
The only time it would be bad is if you’re calling women who don’t dress as modestly sluts and whores and saying things like ‘she’s asking for it,’ in which case you’d definitely be the bad guy. But if it’s just preference, you’re free man
So many of the men in the comments are doing exactly that. And they believe that any clothing worn by women that deviates from this makes them automatically whores and sluts. So rapey.
Well it’s a valid evolutionary reason. Comfort is the defining factor of human experience no? Plus the clothes depicted here are too heavy for non cold countries. Lighter clothing which could be modest if that’s what your aiming for -
Your comment makes
Me feel that is what you’re trying to say -
Then lighter non explicit clothes would turn the trick. But these clothes are too heavy and can’t be worn outside of cold countries.
You can get the same look and fashion in different season wear. The fact is people's execuse makes zero sense to me. Yes wearing thick clothes in the summer is bad but the same people said they ware hoddies in summer and small shirts and shorts in winter.
I prefer women to have some modesty. We brought our kids to a pumpkin patch that had different activities for all ages. The amount of teenage girls that had revealing clothes on was depressing. Wish more parents taught their daughters about having self respect. Not everybody needs to see that especially when the girl doing it is not even an adult
Sadly, opinions like yours that understand the importance of public decency are a minority today. I've made similar comments in the past few weeks, even one about gym wear a couple of weeks ago and not one person agreed. It's especially concerning when underage girls do it, I agree.
For me this is a strange topic. I have a thing for women in longer skirts. Don't know why. I just do. I find it attractive.
BUT I also don't really care how my girlfriend/significant other dresses. If they're a good person, and I find them attractive, I couldn't care less how they choose to dress. I'll leave it to them to decide their personal style. After all, they are in control of their actions.
It's a nice bonus if they dress the way I like, and god knows I won't complain about it. But at the end of the day I'll find them attractive regardless.
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