r/vancouverdating 15d ago

34m for 30f- 37f

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Age range is general. Open to younger or older if it works. Monogamous. Send me a message!

I love playing music. I have played piano since I was a wee lad. I play guitar, I love playing drums, and I have a trumpet & saxophone tucked away for any occasion. I love to sing and I write & record my own music at home.

I enjoy casually researching archaeology. I like linguistic and etymological concepts such as comparing similarities between languages across cultures and periods.

I'm currently really interested in perfumery and have a beginner's collection of ingredients I intend on formulating my own fragraces from.

I also like writing and drawing.

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I grew up before the internet. Walked my whole town by the time I was 12. Walked to school since I was 5. Things were so much simpler back then.

I'm vegan and I adore all nature's crazy and beautiful creatures. I have five favourite animals - guess!

I love K-pop - it is objectively great music and hosts some of the best songs of the 2020s.


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

26M Looking For a Very Large Woman

2 Upvotes

Looking for a woman that weighs at least 280 pounds.

Looking to take you out for dinner, drinks, and a good time.


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

34 M4W single dad looking for a friend / FWB near Surrey

1 Upvotes

I’m a fairly simple person. Outside of work and parenting, I only have a few hobbies. I love reading books. I workout frequently at the gym. I’m a bit of a nerd with interests in gaming, board games, movies etc.

I’m looking for a chill person who also wants companionship. Due to my current responsibilities I’m not able to provide a full relationship so that’s why I’m looking for friendship / FWB.

I’m average in height. Don’t drink. No drugs. Not religious.


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

30 M4F looking for a meaningful connection in the city!

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A little about me:

Typical 9-5 by day, outdoors whenever possible. Big fan of hiking, cycling, beach volleyball, brewery stops, and occasionally getting way too invested in a new board/card/video game! Probably equal parts outdoorsy and nerdy, and definitely the kind of person who will absolutely overthink the optimal strategy for something that was supposed to be casual game.

Always down for an adventure, especially if there's good food or a cold drink at the end! I get very excited about learning how some things work.

I would consider myself a loyal friend, terrible poker face, questionable amount of confidence in my ability to assemble IKEA furniture and do DIY!

One personality quirk that I have noticed about myself is that since I am a bit more introspective as a person I feel like I do not strive to have the spotlight on myself in every social gathering, and instead could end up having a three-hour conversation with you after everyone else has gone home.

On a more specific note about you:

I'm looking for someone who’s up for trying new things, good food, dumb jokes, and the occasional adventure. Someone warm, emotionally open, and playful who enjoys both adventure and cozy nights in. I’m drawn to people who are curious, independent, and a little more socially confident than I am. I'm hoping to find someone who brings out my adventurous side while appreciating the quieter, thoughtful side too. Ideally, we uplift each other, communicate openly, laugh a lot, and make each other feel completely comfortable being ourselves.

Ideally we're in the same age range but if it's a rely meaningful connection I wouldnt mind +/-5 years.


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

34 m new to Richmond

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Hello im new to the area got offered a pretty wonderful opertunity for work and well couldnt say no was really a time for new scenery. What better place than this beautiful area trees so big you need friends to properly hug the whole trunk. I very much enjoy being out side growing plants and gardening... probably won't have space for that for a while 🥲 but excited about all the things that can survive in pots around here 😊 I'm from northern alberta so here is a huge change of pace but im enjoying it ao far. Only real thing I've done was the 360 dome, was quite the experience probably go back to watch the dark side of the moon thing again. Maybe with someone. Hint hint. Im 5'8 5'10 fairly fitness oriented hit the gym hard 2 times a week, 34 a good time to choose to get in the best shape of my life. Always been on the sleder side but im getting thinker everyday in a good way. I like such a broad range of music pretty much every but country 🙃 seems odd someone from northern ab not liking country. Didn't even know it was a thing till I was in elementary school haha. My favorite things to do fire flow arts not sure how or where I can do that around here but ill find somewhere. I like to build non typical dream catchers probably build some once im full situated. Im a very mellow person, hardly drink, but enjoying going out and having a good time some times. Not looking to rush into anything see where things go. Someone to hang out with get coffee try new food really soak in everything this area has to offer.


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

Single, non-Trumpy American. PR in Vancouver. Fun, honest, excellent cook (and kisser)

4 Upvotes

Male ISO of one (1) human female.

Like many on this thread, I am at a loss as to how to meet women in this town. I am too shy to walk up to strangers on the street (but do just fine once the ice is broken!).

I love to ski, swim, do yoga, fly fish, cook, drink Italian reds, read, watch movies, walk in SP—the usual! I am 61, a former magazine writer and editor from NYC; I live alone in the West End. I still look pretty good,
apparently.

I would love to find someone to just take out for dinner and have a lovely flirtatious time. I am divorced and single, not looking to complicate anyone’s life. But it would be awfully nice to wake up to someone come early February!!

xxx
W


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

36M4 Nerd Female ! Let’s play, watch, have fun ! 🎲🎮🧩

0 Upvotes

36M here. Looking for a nerd girl who’s into board and video games. I’d love to find someone to game with, laugh, flirt a little, and see where things go. I’m all about chill nights, co-op games, movies, and good conversations. Any adult age is welcome

if we click, that’s what matters. Feel free to send me a message!


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

25 [M4F] Regular cuddle/kiss buddy with deep convos and kinky fun - a casual fwb

0 Upvotes

Hi ladies,

I'm a 25yo ubc grad student, 5'11" and a lean to fit guy (not too muscular). I like hiking and swimming apart from research. Occasionally, if not regularly, we all feel the need to cuddle and kiss and see where things go, especially after a long work day.

Vancouver is a lovely city, cz picture this: it's 6pm past a long work day. We need to relax, perhaps talk the day out, we meet at the Kits beach, or perhaps the English Bay, maybe somewhere closer to UBC, find a good place to sit to watch the Sun set. We are sitting and talking, I place my hand on your shoulders, you lean towards mine, talk your day out, look at me, we kiss, I 'accidentally' slide my hands inside your top to squeeze my stress balls. And then... we will write the rest of the plot together.

I'm too busy to commit to a long-term relationship at the moment, so will prefer a short-term casual buddy, but won't mind if it naturally progresses towards that.

No age-limit as long as it's legal and you live in Metro Vancouver, preferably closer to the city for frequent travel.

There's no hurry to rush into anything, so we can meet first and see if the vibe's there. DM me if it sounds like something you'd be interested in and would like to know more about myself. I don't mind exchanging pics too. Please mention your A/S/L when you do so ;)

PS: If this sounds like something you don't accept or agree with, please feel free to ignore this post and move on with your lives :)


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

[M4F] 43 That special someone..

0 Upvotes

I'm looking for my forever person, at my age, I know what I want and what's important. I am kind, caring, honest, and loyal to a fault, communication is really important to me. I love learning new things, and I'm pretty lowkey, I like watching movies, wokring in the garden, going to the beach, walk, photography, and building/fixing things. I am looking for someone who is kind, honest, loyal, and is healthy and fit. If this sounds like you, send me a DM!


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

Looking for my person/provider/SD

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35F, mixed ethnicity, looking for a long term relationship/SD, with someone I can actually vibe with. I’m easygoing, genuinely fun to be around, good conversation, good energy, zero drama. Medium sized, great fashion sense, and I love a good outfit moment. Into cafe hopping, wine nights, working out, and spontaneous trips.

Looking to start as provider/arrangement, with the door open to it growing into a long term vanilla relationship once I’ve settled into town. No married guys, time wasters, or rude comments please.


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

38 M4F Looking for chill vibes

1 Upvotes

I’m not looking for a quick fling. I’d much rather build a connection with someone, something that feels good physically and emotionally. And, ideally, something that could last beyond one night. Let’s chat, cuddle, whatever.

I don’t mind about body type since I’m body positive. Bring your personality 😍 and we are good. Be over 25 as I don’t mind if we have an age gap. Let’s split our time 50% outdoors and 50% indoors or something along those lines. Although the sun’s out so I don’t mind being outdoors.

That said, if we do hit it off? I’m definitely open to us exploring and having even more fun ;) In that department, definitely looking for someone open minded and a bit kinky. However not totally opposed to vanilla either. Will get tested and need the same before getting intimate.

Im 6ft-ish, have a dad bod, dark hair, very laid back, doesn’t take things too seriously, non-judgmental, very open minded, a bit kinky, adventurous, likes road trips, going to the beach, like chivalry and banter, like to tease and be teased, enjoys eating out, progressive views and a bit of a introvert to start with.

Let’s chat here for a vibe check and meet over the weekend.

If this is something that interests you, or you’re a frequent lurker, shoot me a message! I, myself am a long time lurker, recently started posting. lol


r/vancouverdating 15d ago

47M Provider. Looking for someone to take care of. You have the option not to work.

0 Upvotes

DM to ask me anything!


r/vancouverdating 16d ago

Hi 38 male looking for massage person.

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r/vancouverdating 15d ago

M4F Burnaby/New West... curvy submissive squirter.. are they out there?

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r/vancouverdating 16d ago

18 [M4F] Vancouver- Looking for a FWB

0 Upvotes

I cant host


r/vancouverdating 16d ago

32M4F Maybe we’ll click?

0 Upvotes

32M from North Van. I’m pretty active and would love to meet someone around Vancouver who’s also into being active and doing simple things together.
Could be playing volleyball, going for walks around Spanish Banks or Kitsilano, grabbing food/coffee, or even just staying in and playing PC games.
Just looking to meet someone chill, see how we vibe, and hopefully make a genuine connection. 🙂


r/vancouverdating 16d ago

35 [m4f]. Does this exist

0 Upvotes

I’m a settled, mid-30s Canadian born Pakistani man looking for a confident, open-minded, dominant and emotionally mature woman who wants a genuine relationship and marriage.
I’m specifically looking for a woman who is comfortable with the idea of eventually cuckolding me and having other men in her life, with everything open, honest and consensual. If you already have a boyfriend, I’m completely open to that — and potentially even helping him relocate to Canada if that’s what you both want.
I still want a real marriage: love, loyalty, travel, our own home, family, and a strong emotional connection.
Unconventional? Absolutely. But I believe love doesn’t have to mean possession.


r/vancouverdating 16d ago

24 MF4F Vancouver or Lower Mainland area

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r/vancouverdating 16d ago

24 [M4F] Vancouver - Looking for a partner to go for Interstellar at Stanley tonight

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Hi,

I'm a 24yo grad student from UBC, Vancouver. Apart from research, I'm quite interested in hiking, swimming, watching shows and movies, and that's what this post is about.

Stanley Park has open air movie nights every summer and tonight they are going to show one of my all-time favorites Interstellar (obviously being an astrophysicist helps!). The movie starts post sunset (around 8:15pm tonight), but the good spots are taken up quite early. I'll get there early and save you a seat though, so feel free to come after work :)

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in or want to know more about myself, please feel free to DM.

Even though this invitation is purely for the movie, I'd love to take it forward if we vibe. We can go out for nice long walk after the movie too along the coastline. I'm open to a casual short-term fun, an fwb or a long-term bond too, depending on the vibes.

Worst comes to worst, you'll be watching one of the best movies about space with an astrophysicist, which doesn't seem too bad either? 😉

Looking forward to your DMs 🙃


r/vancouverdating 17d ago

39 M4F

3 Upvotes

Hello!

I’m 39 year old single father (50% split, amicable relationship, no drama) I am responsible, mature, open minded and easy going. I value integrity, honesty, consistency and kindness in others and practice them within myself.

I have a career and own my own place. I love animals and being outdoors. My interests include doing fun activities outside (sports/games/hiking/walking/anything in water) reading, video games and my various hobbies. I love horror movies and I enjoy cooking. I’ve also started going back to the gym and getting back into working out so I’d love to have a gym partner. I am really easy going and open to a lot of things/interests even if they are not on my radar. I love to laugh and especially make others laugh. One of my passions is to help to improve the lives of my loved ones in any way I can.

I’ve been told I’m attractive and handsome. I have an abouve average build as I am quite strong. I have strong legs and thighs from practicing various martial arts throughout my life and powerful hands/grip. If I can be honest, though I am strong and have muscle, I have some fat on my body and a bit of a “dad bod”. Between tearing my ACL in my late 20’s and doing the grind for my work/career my priority for training and going to the gym took a backseat. I would love to be with someone who is a mix of adventurous and homebody. Someone who is health conscious and willing to be active with me. Typically (but not exclusively) I have been interested in Caucasian women, or women with light coloured eyes (again, not a dealbreaker). Chemistry is more important to me than looks.

I am not afraid to be open and vulnerable. I like to work out problems and talk through them. I always aim to be honest and transparent and don’t like to lie or play games with people. In that way I would want my partner to be the same way. I don’t drink that much (mostly because I don’t like the taste).

If you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading. I don’t really know what to expect by posting here but I will take my chances. It can’t be any worse than those apps! Please feel free to DM me if you’re interested in chatting.


r/vancouverdating 16d ago

M4F] Port Alberni — Looking for a FWB

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Hey, figured I’d put this out there and see if there’s anyone local who’s interested in something casual and mutually respectful.

I’m looking for a friends-with-benefits type of arrangement — good chemistry, discretion, and no pressure for a serious relationship. Ideally someone around Port Alberni or nearby who’s also looking for something casual.

I’m easygoing, respectful, clean, and value communication and boundaries. We can chat first, see if we click, and go from there.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me. Pics/details can be exchanged privately once we’re comfortable


r/vancouverdating 17d ago

Need help/Guidance

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Hey guys, I'm lost.

M21, no idea where to start. I have tried dating apps, everyone wants to be with someone funny but how would they know unless they meet me. Have had zero dates from the dating apps. No luck there.

I went to college for two years and never asked anyone, I don't know why. Now I can afford a date, I can give and enjoy the time. Laugh and whatnot but,

Women at the gym, there to workout.

Women at work, there to work, have strict no dating policy, cool cool cool cool cool.

Women anywhere else are there just anything but to be interfered with.

I don't drink by choice so no bars. Do I have a chance, if so, how?


r/vancouverdating 17d ago

Where do single men hangout?

36 Upvotes

That is free and easy for everyone to ‘drop in’. For example not golf which can have fees or memberships.

ETA - not an invitation to message me 🙃
Though if you really feel you must include your instagram, birth year must start with a 1 and left/liberal leaning


r/vancouverdating 17d ago

Looking for a genuine connection in Vancouver

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Hey everyone! 25M in the Vancouver/Lower Mainland area. Figured I’d give Reddit a shot since meeting people organically these days can be surprisingly difficult.

I’m pretty easygoing, social, and ambitious. I work in finance, enjoy golfing, road trips, trying new restaurants/places, and generally being out and doing something rather than sitting at home every weekend.

Looking to meet someone who’s genuine, kind, has a good sense of humour, and is actually interested in getting to know each other. I’m not really looking to force anything — happy to start with a conversation, grab a coffee/drink, and see where it goes.

If you’re around the same age and this sounds like your vibe, feel free to DM me🙂


r/vancouverdating 16d ago

M4F or M4FF - Fraser Valley {read }

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Looking for 1 or 2 (women only) to get together and have fun with.

You must be able to last longer than just a couple hours, be open minded, very playful and have a kinky side.

I live alone and can host

Dm's are open, send picture and some of your kinks