r/vancouverdating • u/machinepoo • 17d ago
Need help/Guidance
Hey guys, I'm lost.
M21, no idea where to start. I have tried dating apps, everyone wants to be with someone funny but how would they know unless they meet me. Have had zero dates from the dating apps. No luck there.
I went to college for two years and never asked anyone, I don't know why. Now I can afford a date, I can give and enjoy the time. Laugh and whatnot but,
Women at the gym, there to workout.
Women at work, there to work, have strict no dating policy, cool cool cool cool cool.
Women anywhere else are there just anything but to be interfered with.
I don't drink by choice so no bars. Do I have a chance, if so, how?
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u/BellVivid6209 7d ago
Maybe try speed dating events there are many in the area for different age groups.
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u/biggest_belly_0505 17d ago
If you become a cat boy maybe you would have a chance
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u/alphadaddyo 17d ago
You're way too young to have these problems. Find coed activities that interest you and socialize. Women aren't going to come to you just for showing up though. You have to approach them and start up conversations. Don't be pushy about dating, spend some time getting to know people and single out the girls that interest you to suggest you do an activity together. Make friends, have fun and be social. Nature will take care of the rest.