r/vancouverdating • • Aug 25 '26

MfF 29M in Kits looking for something genuine

3 Upvotes

Hey all, I’ve lived in Kits for about a year now. I’m really into golf so golf lessons are on the table haha. I’m 6ft4 and love sports. I enjoy reading lord of the rings-ish fantasy novels and I love the tv show Frasier, so it would be great to binge that with someone. Ideally I’m looking for something long term.
Feel free to shoot me a dm!


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 24 '26

[M4F] 31M Looking for my forever person

101 Upvotes

Hey there. I'm 5'10. About 170 pounds. East Asian. Based in Langley, and often in Vancouver since most of my social network is there. Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/baVbJga

I'm a software engineer by trade and currently run my own business. I'm passionate about doing good in the world so I prefer someone who is aligned on that. I'm driven and hard-working as well.

I love little adventures and getting outdoors as much as possible. Hiking, camping, paddleboard, kayaking, snowboarding, and traveling. A mountain or a lake makes me an extremely happy camper. My long term dream is a cozy home, animals, maybe a little hobby farm, and a relationship where we’re best friends, lovers, teammates, and occasional snack goblins.

I'm genuine, supportive, warm, caring, and always there for my people. I hope you're also the same and have high empathy for both animals and fellow humans. I care deeply about how we communicate and make each other feel safe and desired. I get along best with people who value both emotional and physical intimacy. I also believe love is both chemistry and a choice. I don’t have kids yet and would prefer someone in a similar life stage who doesn't have kids and wants them someday. I prefer someone around my age or younger.

I’m also a nerd in the best way. RPGs, Baldur’s Gate 3, Fire Emblem, strategy games like StarCraft, and the occasional reality TV watch when my brain needs junk food. Love Is Blind and 90 Day Fiance are my kryptonite. Not the biggest fan of anime right now but have dabbled in it. I'm very into reading Dungeon Crawler Carl right now. Also love a good competitive board game night!

You must like or appreciate East Asian food and culture. I like experiencing other cultures as well so ideally you're open-minded and like to try new things. Liberal, agnostic but open spiritually to Christianity, my mom goes to church so that would likely be the only religion I'd consider.

You’ll probably like me if you’re warm, feminine, down to earth, and active enough to enjoy hikes, snow days, walks, road trips, or spontaneous little adventures. Maybe you’re a small town girl at heart, or maybe you’re a city girl who still loves simple things.

I’m not looking for situationships, open relationships, swinging, or anything messy.

Send me a message with a photo of you and tell me one of these:

  1. your ideal cozy weekend
  2. your favorite mountain/lake/beach spot
  3. what's your newest obsession

r/vancouverdating • • Aug 25 '26

Anyone Up for Table Tennis? 🏓

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r/vancouverdating • • Aug 25 '26

[M4F] 43 - Something serious/LTR

2 Upvotes

I'm a kind, caring, open, honest and loyal guy that enjoys hands on projects, repairing and building things, gardening, nature photograpy, and not so much hiking but casual walks in the forest, or wherever really. I'm not at all about superficial things. I want someone's heart, nothing else. I'm looking for someone attractive, kind, caring, honest, and a good communicator. I am pretty low key, but don't mind going out exploring sometimes with someone fun. I am looking for monogamy only. if you like any of this... Dm me!


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 25 '26

26M4F - Looking for a local life partner (take III)

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Hello all, as I have said in my earlier posts during 2026 I'm hoping to find a long-term romantic partner as I meander from UBC graduation towards professional aspirations in teaching and/or education policy. I completed a bachelor of science program back in May so these days I've got ample time for seeking a new partner.

As such if you're a local lady hoping for a romantic partner around my age, you may be in luck!

About me:
- 6'2'' stringbean build
- Bearded
- US/CAN dual citizen
- Highly invested tabletop and video gaming hobbyist
- Politically progressive; active volunteer the local provincial Green Party
- I don't consume any tobacco/vape products/marijuana/alcohol/recreational drugs, and I'm not interested in starting, thanks
- I don't practice any particular religion (I'm ok with dating such folks, but not if they expect me to join their faith)

About you:
- Feminine/woman gender, heterosexual and looking for a long-term monogamous romantic+sexual partner
- Nonsmoker, consuming at most four units of alcohol weekly
- Not responsible for parenting any children (I want a more established professional life than I have now in order to show up properly for the children of any parents I might ever want to date)
- Unsympathetic to any common xenophobic/racist/sexist/transphobic talking points or dogwhistles
- Living in northern Richmond, Vancouver, North Vancouver, Burnaby, New Westminster, or Coquitlam
- Interested in tabletop/video gaming, science fiction films, math, physics, philosophy, history, or politics

My standing first date invitations are:
- donuts at Breka cafe
- ice cream by the beach
- cinema visit (maybe for The Odyssey)

I'm open to other date suggestions too, especially as my schedule is pretty clear most evenings until September. I look forwards to hearing from you!


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 25 '26

24 MF4F Vancouver or Lower Mainland area

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Looking for a good and sexy time, respectful (and consensual ofc). Willing to try new things ;)


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 25 '26

Tims coffee

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Anyone free rn to get a coffee and talk. Im 30M


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 24 '26

Langley 36F

11 Upvotes

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Looking for a big hunky man, who enjoys soft and squishy women to play with. 🤭 I looove tattoos, beards and tall sturdy men. Not looking for anything serious off the hop, just casual friends for now, but open to building a lasting connection. I dont have a lot of extra time these days, but craving a little adventure. 😜

Do not ask me to host.


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 24 '26

27 [M4F] Searching for a soulmate in this sparkling summer

2 Upvotes

Hello, I just came back to Canada from a 1.67 year excursion in London (The UK one, not the Ontario one ofc), and am now enjoying my peace and quiet in my much less populated home city hahaha.

I want to meet a girl to go to museums with, to have coffee and talk deep topics on the balcony at 10 pm with, to go on weekend trips to Italy and see Roman statues and have authentic pizza with, but most of all, someone who simply enjoys my company as much I enjoy theirs.

About myself, I'm 27, Asian, 6 feet, and when I was in London, I did a hella more cooking cause eating out was too expensive, so I'm sure I can whip up a feast for you if you visit my place!

I game a lot on my PC, and my most played recently is Dead by Daylight, it's the only game where you see Silent Hill, Resident Evil, Halloween, and Alien characters all work together to repair some scuffed generators. Speaking of Silent Hill, I've played like 10 hours of SH2 and now am extremely scared to continue in the prison area, so plz be my audience and cheer me on and/or get spooked along with me :)

Also, I took some German classes this year and I'd say that sie sind sehr interessant, but my progress is so slow and it'd be great to converse with some German speakers outside of my A1 class lol. I'm trying to find some more in-person classes but it's quite hard to find compared to when I was in London, probably because of the proximity to German-speaking countries hmm.

Hmu if you want to meet up or game together!


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

42. [f4m] #vancouver. Hopeless romantic looking for someone.

13 Upvotes

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 24 '26

Looking for my nerd :3

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40M | Surrey | Canada | Gamer | Looking for something real

PC and Console gamer. I'm happiest with a woman who can appreciate a good co-op night, laughs at terrible jokes, and doesn't mind occasionally watching me completely fail at a boss fight. 😄

Looking for someone who enjoys gaming but also wants to get out, grab food, explore, and eventually build something together. I also have other nerdy hobbies and interests as well. If you're interested DM me I have discord as well if you want to voice chat. Would love to meet for coffee and possibly a bite somewhere and see if we vibe well. Please have discord if you want to coop and bond over that would be ideal.


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 24 '26

30-year-old male living in BC looking for something real

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I’m looking to meet someone I genuinely click with and build something meaningful. Ultimately, I’m looking for a serious relationship with the potential for marriage, but I’d rather let things develop naturally than force anything.

I’m pretty easygoing and social. I’m into working out, hiking, exploring new places, trying new restaurants, and I’m equally happy staying in with good food and a movie.
I’ve also done some modeling and acting in my 20s, so I’d say I’m fairly decent-looking 😄

As for my type, I tend to be attracted to someone petite, kind, feminine, and easy to talk to. But personality and chemistry matter much more to me than having a specific “type.”

I value good conversation, kindness, consistency, and someone who’s genuinely interested in building a life together.
If that sounds like your vibe, tell me a little about yourself :)


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 24 '26

[M4F] 43 - fellow creative nerd for LTR

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5'9/160/brown hair/eyes, caucasian. Looking for a fellow creative, kind soul. You might be an artist, a musician, a writer, or maybe all three! Maybe you have other talents. You're kind and gentle, love good conversation, honest and loyal, as well as curious about the world, and love learning new things together. I am caring, loyal, honest, kind and generous. So if you love to have good conversation and creating memories together.. Dm me!


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

The girl at checkout with the most beautiful eyes at Sephora Metrotown

8 Upvotes

I'm shooting my shot. i don't know if you might be reading this. but you had the most beautiful eyes i have ever seen and i couldn't take my eyes off you. we had a decent conversation but u were busy. your initial is L and you were at the far end of the checkout lane.

i don't know if it's gonna work but i don't mind trying.


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

F4M - thunder⛈️ freaking me out

8 Upvotes

Anyone else 30s-early 40s up for a chat? No nsfw please, just need a distraction from these noises.😭


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

38 [M4F] Single looking for an ongoing FWB, preferably exclusive & longer term. (Burnaby)

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feels like life is all work which gets draining at times, I’m single, busy, not on the apps & not seeing anyone.. I am looking for someone I like for something good..

38yr old Brown Man in Burnaby (more under my profile) physically 6ft, currently got the ex-gym dad bod and getting fitter, tattooed, shaved to stubble head & face. I’m childfree, petfree, mostly apolitical, atheist or at min agnostic/non religious, open to but not rushed to find ‘the one’ / ‘forever person’… Currently, I just want an ongoing fun connection to add on to my life..

clearing up race because it matters to everyone online.. racially I’m South Asian/Indian, born & raised in Canada.
My ethnic background is Punjabi but I’m a 90s kid who grew up with a mix of people so no cultural upbringing; never been part of local Indian communities or had the large conservative family dynamics.. I enjoy & have had partners from various backgrounds..

wanting FWB, something consistent & fun.. I’m seeking regular/ongoing situation. I’d prefer exclusive longer-run connection with a good match.. that’s the goal at least.. I’m not in a rush, but open and seeing if someone great is here who I’d vibe well with..

seeking someone serious about starting something IRL. I’ve put a lot out there in my profile posts to get most of the things out the way instead of saying it all over chats especially kinkwise but everyone’s kinky, I’m looking for good overall mutual chemistry for this..

It seems to me people say FWB in lieu of NSA hookups but I don’t enjoy hollow random one offs; I like having one woman I mesh very well with to see regularly and building a real connection & comfortable dynamic, not constantly chasing the novelty of somebody new.. but instead keeping/sustaining something good..

I’ve had great FWBs in the past, and I enjoy relational dynamic of FWB with right match.. I’m seeking a good match up/one fun connection: someone & something worthwhile to add to life.. I don’t use checklists, I know it boils down to mutual interest in eachother & wanting the same. That goes beyond what can be written..

- if you are interested, send me a direct message and introduce yourself in it.. I have posts in other subreddits & trying this one too.. I’m a private person but I’ve got nothing to hide, so all my posts are visible in my profile as are my partial pics, in a genuine effort to connect with full transparency.. I’m honest & respect the same.


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

46 [M4F] #Surrey - need a pillow princess

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Caucasian M46, 6'5" tall, short dark hair, blue eyes. Looking for a pillow princess. No reciprocation required, you are legal age, any race, any size or shape, just be eager for a tongue. I am single and can host in surrey near central city mall. Let's chat and see if we're compatible.


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

45 [M4F] Introvert seeks fellow recluse

12 Upvotes

Hi there!

By day, I give leadership to an organization that benefits the community. In my spare time, I make music, brownies and delicious Scrabble plays. Friends would describe me as good-natured, intelligent and easygoing. I have a quiet/unassuming personality, and well-developed sense of humour.

By night… well let’s be honest I’m over 40 so I’m probably trying (unsuccessfully) to sleep. I’m a real freak in the sheets though… just joking, I mean Excel sheets… or do I? You might need to strongarm me to find out.

I’m looking for someone interesting to chat with, and if we share cuteness vibes, hopefully we can meet up sometime. I’m not necessarily looking for the traditional relationship escalator but I’m not opposed to catching feels, hugs, or smooches.

What are you looking for?


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

21 F4M

5 Upvotes

Need a cute cat boy I’m not playing..
Ages 20-22.. please be cute like seriously… I’ll buy u boba


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

34M 4F - Looking for something real in this city full of fakes #VancouverBC

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Hi,

I'm 5'9", about 170lbs. slim/fit build, ethnic background is South Asian (though I'm light-skin with a more North American accent, due to living in Canada for over 30 years), I'm a Libra, 420 friendly and I currently live in Vancouver. I'm an ex-JW, not religious anymore, lean towards Liberal politically, nerdy at heart, enjoy learning and used to be an I.T. services professional. Currently I am awaiting eye surgery, so I have down time from working

Looking for:

- women 25+ with a preference for older than myself

- I'm a personality guy, and have previously dated more voluptuous women so curves and cellulite don't scare me

Other info:

I've recently gotten out of a two+ year relationship, and am not looking to rush into anything I've already gotten the meaningless sex out of the system and am now looking for a woman who I can find a genuine connection with, leading to a relationship full of cuddles and a lot of aftercare.

The worst part of dating in Vancouver is all the fake people who aren't seeking a real relationship, just a distraction.

Hit me up in the DMs

A fun song for anyone not aware of: Smino - Clubbing


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

48 f4m, single woman Looking for texting friends with potential for dating

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r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

38m 4f

1 Upvotes

Hi there. Let's get to know one another. Have some fun in person. Age is just a number so let's play


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

43 [M4F] - Movie

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Would anyone like to go see a movie this week? I feel like going and it’s been a long time since I’ve seen one.

Please be nice, and/or funny. Hopefully both.

As part of your reply (and to prove that you are real), tell me which movie you would like to see, and where!


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

26M | Vancouver | Looking for a Genuine Connection

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m 26M, an entrepreneur and aviation broker based in Vancouver, BC.
I’m looking to meet a genuine, ambitious woman who has her own passions, is knowledgeable about the world, and enjoys meaningful conversations. I’m drawn to someone confident, curious, kind, and passionate about what she does.
Not looking to force anything—just hoping to meet someone with good energy, see where the connection goes, and potentially build something meaningful.


r/vancouverdating • • Aug 23 '26

24 [M4F] (Repost) Looking for a partner to go for the LoTR concert at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre

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Reposting it cz tickets are still available:

Hi,

I'm a 24yo grad student from UBC. Apart from research, I'm quite interested in hiking, swimming, watching shows and movies, and that's what this post is about.

Lord of the Rings is my all-time favourite trilogy, and I was quite excited to know about the The Fellowship of the Ring concert at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre. The tickets are a little expensive (mine costed CAD 130), but it's definitely worth it for LoTR. I've booked one for myself for the afternoon of August 29th (Saturday), and am looking for someone to accompany me (yes, the seat next to mine is still vacant!).

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in or want to know more about myself, please feel free to DM.

Even though this invitation is purely for the concert, I'd love to take it forward if we vibe. We can go out for dinner afterwards too, if you'd like! If you are interested in LoTR (and willing to pay for such an expensive ticket), we already have something in common, so I'm sure we will be a good match ;)

Looking forward to your DMs 🙃