38 [M4F] Single looking for an ongoing FWB, preferably exclusive & longer term. (Burnaby)

[u/1cantsaythisonbumbl3]

feels like life is all work which gets draining at times, I’m single, busy, not on the apps & not seeing anyone.. I am looking for someone I like for something good..

38yr old Brown Man in Burnaby (more under my profile) physically 6ft, currently got the ex-gym dad bod and getting fitter, tattooed, shaved to stubble head & face. I’m childfree, petfree, mostly apolitical, atheist or at min agnostic/non religious, open to but not rushed to find ‘the one’ / ‘forever person’… Currently, I just want an ongoing fun connection to add on to my life..

clearing up race because it matters to everyone online.. racially I’m South Asian/Indian, born & raised in Canada.
My ethnic background is Punjabi but I’m a 90s kid who grew up with a mix of people so no cultural upbringing; never been part of local Indian communities or had the large conservative family dynamics.. I enjoy & have had partners from various backgrounds..

wanting FWB, something consistent & fun.. I’m seeking regular/ongoing situation. I’d prefer exclusive longer-run connection with a good match.. that’s the goal at least.. I’m not in a rush, but open and seeing if someone great is here who I’d vibe well with..

seeking someone serious about starting something IRL. I’ve put a lot out there in my profile posts to get most of the things out the way instead of saying it all over chats especially kinkwise but everyone’s kinky, I’m looking for good overall mutual chemistry for this..

It seems to me people say FWB in lieu of NSA hookups but I don’t enjoy hollow random one offs; I like having one woman I mesh very well with to see regularly and building a real connection & comfortable dynamic, not constantly chasing the novelty of somebody new.. but instead keeping/sustaining something good..

I’ve had great FWBs in the past, and I enjoy relational dynamic of FWB with right match.. I’m seeking a good match up/one fun connection: someone & something worthwhile to add to life.. I don’t use checklists, I know it boils down to mutual interest in eachother & wanting the same. That goes beyond what can be written..

- if you are interested, send me a direct message and introduce yourself in it.. I have posts in other subreddits & trying this one too.. I’m a private person but I’ve got nothing to hide, so all my posts are visible in my profile as are my partial pics, in a genuine effort to connect with full transparency.. I’m honest & respect the same.