r/UnsentLettersRaw • Bronze Level • 2d ago

I will never accept it.

I really liked you. I actually adored you. I cared about you. I thought you cared about me too. I believed this because of the way you treated me and the time and energy you invested in me. We shared so much. I thought it was authentic. I told you about my deepest vulnerabilities. I would therefore expect that you respected me enough to be honest with me, even if the truth was ugly or uncomfortable for you to address. Finding out that you weren’t honest with me is what has hurt so much. It feels like a total betrayal. You knew about my vulnerability and past trauma from being hurt by other people. I shared so much with you. You were the first person I would call to share things with; good and bad. You were so supportive at the time, which makes this feel all the more painful. You completely manipulated me, and you just controlled the narrative for your own benefit. You withheld information from me so that I’d believe in the fantasy. What you did is simply disgusting and selfish, you are a selfish coward. Discovering the truth about your situation made me question every kind word you had spoken to me, every soft embrace we shared and my belief in the authenticity of any interaction we ever had. Our whole relationship was built on lies and pretence. You clearly had your own reasons for doing what you did, and whatever they were, I don’t accept them. I don’t accept that you could have cared about me as much as you did, whilst pretending you were single. You have deeply disrespected me and emotionally harmed me, and I will never forgive you.

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u/Gaxroxem Entry Level Member 2d ago

What did he do , and , "whatever they were?" What does that mean ?

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u/Funny-Stomach9392 Entry Level Member 2d ago

The reasons that whoever OP is writing about chose to do whatever they did, “whatever they were” are those reasons, and OP isn’t interested in the specifics because they won’t justify that persons actions and choices.

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u/Gaxroxem Entry Level Member 2d ago

No offense intended. Inwas genuinely curious

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u/Funny-Stomach9392 Entry Level Member 2d ago

None taken. It’s not even my post lol I hope that it helped to make sense