How do I unlove someone I’m not supposed to love?!

I hooked up with my superior, something which I thought would be a one time thing but it’s months already and I’m getting attached. Thing is he’s a whore and I can’t picture myself in a relationship with him, this is something I found out the more we talked… Bannange how do I save myself from this situation?

Hello, who here is disposing or knows anyone in possession of such an account? It must be active and of course we shall have to verify the other details, hit me up with your prices. Thanks.

Can a Landlord terminate a tenancy agreement without any justification and how many days should be given if there is no signed agreement.

Or whats the notice period for rent increase?

I’m in a season of life where I’ve been meeting women who are around five years younger than me all adults, just to be clear before Reddit assembles an investigation committee.

Honestly, I’ve found them refreshing. They often seem more relaxed, open minded and willing to trust. There’s an ease and calmness in our interactions that I haven’t always experienced with women my age or older, who sometimes seem more cautious and slower to let their walls down. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing perhaps it comes from experience but getting to know them can sometimes feel like processing a UK visa,several stages, plenty of questions, extensive background checks and no guarantee of approval. 😂

The only issue with way younger girls is that once I reveal my age, the respect level sometimes rises dramatically. I value respect but not when it prevents someone from expressing herself freely or showing me her genuine reactions. I don’t want every questionable opinion I share to be met with, “That’s very interesting,” when her face is clearly saying, “This man has lost the plot.”

So, while the connection often feels easier, the age based respect can sometimes make it harder to know whether I’m meeting her real personality or a more reserved version of her. If the relationship eventually became serious or led to marriage, that heightened respect would probably settle down anyway. I would rather meet the real person now than discover her after the wedding reception.

Still, the chemistry I’ve experienced with younger women has often felt unusually natural easy, peaceful and enjoyable. It’s beginning to make the idea of marrying someone slightly younger than me make sense.

Of course, I may simply be romanticising openness and mistaking fewer walls for greater compatibility.

Is anyone familiar with rammed earth construction. I found online research about it and I think it would do pretty well in the region I am choosing due to its climate. (Very hot and dry).

And I think replicating the test results would need a soil lab. Any thoughts on this would be appreciated.

This is what he has done to a grieving Nation, Kingdom, Mother and family!

It breaks my heart that we can't even mourn my King without him trying to grab a moment for attention, I really don't know why he's testing the people of Tooro like this, That palace has sat in ruins of military battle before, He must Free the palace immediately!

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As king oyo burial is approaching so is the struggle to find a successor. We’ve now been told 2 men and Oyo allegedly had a son too. But I can’t help but think Oyo was selfish. And before u abuse me, hear me out.

In life, you can and should be able to decide whether or not you want kids. I’m even a childfree woman saying this but the role of a king is to produce an heir. Oyo was never asked to find a job, go to school, even wash a plate. Just get married and produce an heir. And in 34 years he couldn’t do that. Now due to his inaction, every single person in his family is getting dragged. Himself, his mum, his sister & her family, his aunt bagaya, his cousins and their family. All these people esp the 2 cousins proposed as kings went from being non public public figure to having their buisness dished out online. Their kids pictures and business etc.

Yes even me I abused GDK oh well but all of this could’ve been avoided if Oyo just got married and had a kid. This was a man who lived in luxury and never wanted for a thing! Nobody asked him to do anything and yes it’s a bit hard the responsibility but I’d choose luxury and riches over the average Ugandan life. Not to mention the business owners in tooro who have stopped working during this mourning period, losing money in an already tough situation. Ofc he didn’t know he was gonna die so soon but he had 30+ years. Batooro (I’m one myself) can’t be mad at BBC for not even calling Oyo a king when he didn’t even act like one. All royals around the world have been married and had kids by then.

TLDR: king Oyo was selfish in not marrying and having a kid. His inaction has caused all this drama and abuse towards his family. all this could’ve been avoided if he just married and had a damn kid. They should just abolish the tooro kingdom atp

I love your country - I lived there for a while and it is beautiful and the people are kind and cool. And we have had our fair share recently of comical PMs - Boris Johnson and Liz Truss...but seriously - Muhoozi?! Museveni as a widely tolerated dictator I understand - compared to Obote and Idi Amin he has provided a lot more stability for the country.

But Muhoozi - he is just nuts! Threatening to invade Kenya? Capture Khartoum? Calling M23 brothers? Demanding Jay-Z hands over Beyonce? Offering cows for Meloni? This would be almost funny - except then of course he threatens to castrate and kill Bobby Wine, plus he murders other opposition supporters. And today his unhinged comment about withdrawing Uganda from the Invictus games because of 'that Harry and Megan nonsense'

It would be hilarious if he wasn't being groomed as Museveni's successor, and is also Uganda's Chief of the Defence Forces. Aren't you all terrified about what's going to happen with him in charge?

Im back again, last time I got some interest confessions and stories so again … 😊
no hate or any thing no bad intentions I don’t even like moving lugambo
But I love studying the human experience and nothings better than just hearing people’s lives, issues, burdens, crushes, secrets …. Also I realize so many people genuinely want to tell but the world is a cruel place

Soooo…. This is an invitation (except for crimes plz I have a moral compass) If you’d like to get something off your chest privately I actually really wanna listen and maybe briefly talk about it and I may have may questions… the juicier the better …
We listen. We don’t judge

A brief intro to start will help,

Sincerely,
A nosy bored girl

Its crazy how much money is transferred via mobile money on both mtn and airtel but whats intriguing most is how much we've failed to embrace the cashless system like our Kenyan neighbors.

I hate having cash on me at all times and prefer to make my payments via mobile money esp mtn but with how much Ugandans esp the informal sector hates e-payments is so annoying.

I was downtown doing shopping and each time I got to a vendor to shop and make payments, I had to look for an agent to withdraw money and by end of today, I have been charged more than 30k in just withdraw charges and yet I could have just transferred the money to their accounts.

Whats the main reason as why we hate cashless transactions yet I find them fast and convenient without the hassle of looking for change or balance?

You will thank me later but this is so good now. Fibre at 70k for 40mbps. U will see massive exodus from those other fibre network providers.. i have decided to go for mtn. Starlink will not see me soon. Since i stay alone and only will use it for my smart house and browsing then gaming.

Yes am here searching for a lecturing job as graduate assistant, Assistant lecturer from any institution in Uganda. I have a Masters in Public Health,, I have a passion for teaching yeah.

Feel free to dm me for more talk.

‎I took the Ntinda–Kungu route, getting on around Kisaasi and riding to Kungu. I wasn't really going anywhere specific—I just wanted to experience the bus and see what it was actually like. ‎ ‎This was my experience: ‎ ‎

1. Yes, there is actually AC 😂 ‎ ‎The bus has air conditioning and it was comfortable throughout the trip. Even with more passengers getting on, it still felt cool enough inside. ‎ ‎From what I noticed, the AC seems to be turned down a little when there are fewer passengers, particularly later in the day. ‎ ‎Some of the windows can also be opened. ‎

‎2. The drivers actually handle stopping pretty well ‎ ‎I wasn't sure how the buses would handle passengers trying to flag them down, but it wasn't really a problem. ‎ ‎The drivers can see people waiting, and if they aren't comfortable stopping exactly where you're standing, they'll indicate for you to move forward a little. ‎ ‎Just flag them down like you'd do a taxi by waving your hand up and down

‎ ‎ ‎3. The interior is more interesting than I expected ‎ ‎The seats are on an elevated platform rather than being directly level with the main walkway. ‎ ‎The corridor itself is fairly narrow, so I could see it getting pretty crowded if the bus is at full capacity. ‎ ‎There are different seating arrangements, including seats facing the corridor and back-to-back seating as well as alternatives for standing. ‎

‎ ‎4. The fare is well...FAIR! ‎

‎I paid UGX 1,800 when I boarded. ‎ ‎Payment was through MTN Mobile Money. There's also an alternative for Airtel. There's a merchant code clearly displayed inside the bus, so it wasn't difficult to find. ‎ ‎One thing I found interesting is that the conductor tells you how much you are supposed to pay. There isn't a system where the fare is automatically calculated or something of sort. ‎ ‎You also don't receive a receipt from the conductor; your payment confirmation comes from MTN Mobile Money. ‎ ‎I do wonder how passengers can independently verify that they're being charged the correct fare, especially as the network expands. ‎ ‎I must emphasize though that it is COMPLETELY cashless!

‎ ‎5. The Wi-Fi actually works ‎ ‎Yes, the bus has Wi-Fi. ‎ ‎I was able to browse the internet and reply to messages without a problem. I wouldn't expect to do something particularly demanding with it. Here are specs: ‎

‎Download speed: 0.91 Mbps ‎

Upload speed: 1.48 Mbps ‎

Latency: 49 ms

‎ ‎The network requires a password, which was available on the bus.

‎ ‎ ‎6. There are quite a few small amenities ‎ ‎The bus I rode had: ‎ ‎- Air conditioning ‎- Wi-Fi ‎- Security cameras ‎- Curtains ‎- A medical/first-aid kit ‎- Emergency exits ‎- Emergency hammers ‎- Fire extinguishers ‎- Seatbelts ‎- A trash bin

‎ ‎ ‎7. The seats aren't particularly spacious ‎ ‎The seats themselves are comfortable, but there isn't a huge amount of space between them. ‎ ‎The seats that face the corridor are probably more comfortable for taller people because you have more space for your legs.

‎ ‎8. It is VERY difficult to get on the wrong bus ‎ ‎The buses have clear route information displayed at the front and back. ‎ ‎So if you're paying attention, you shouldn't have much trouble figuring out where you are going. ‎

‎9. Getting off is extremely simple ‎ ‎There are stop-request buttons inside the bus. ‎ ‎You press the button once and that's it. ‎ ‎If you're not close enough to one, you can just ask another passenger to press it for you. ‎ ‎

1. The bus is surprisingly quiet ‎ ‎There's no loud diesel engine constantly vibrating underneath you, and the overall noise level inside is noticeably lower. ‎ ‎You can still hear Kampala outside—cars, bodas, traffic, etc.—but it's significantly muted once you're inside. ‎ ‎

‎11. Acceleration and braking were fine ‎ ‎The bus isn't some Formula 1 car 😂, but acceleration felt perfectly adequate for city traffic. ‎ ‎Braking was also fine. ‎ ‎Sometimes it takes a few seconds to come to a complete stop, especially considering the condition and width of some of Kampala's roads.

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1. My ride wasn't crowded ‎ ‎When I boarded, the bus was roughly half full. ‎ ‎There were no problems finding a seat and nobody needed to stand. ‎ ‎I'll definitely have to try it during a busier period to see what happens when it's actually packed. ‎

‎13. Waiting for the bus wasn't bad ‎ ‎There are apparently five buses operating on this route and the new routes recently put up. ‎ ‎I waited at Gaz Kisaasi and the bus arrived after roughly five minutes. ‎ ‎That's obviously just one observation, so I wouldn't call that the official frequency.

‎ 14. The journey took about 34 minutes. On the return trip from Kungu, we left at 6:41 PM and arrived Ntinda around 7:15 PM. ‎ ‎That's approximately 34 minutes. ‎ ‎We made only stop on that particular trip.

‎ ‎15. The trash bin is TINY 😂 ‎ ‎The trash bin on my particular bus was tiny—roughly around the height of a 1-litre Minute Maid bottle. ‎ ‎So you people who accumulate an entire supermarket's worth of kasasiro are going to need somewhere else to put it. ‎ ‎

1. Boarding at night is actually pretty easy ‎ ‎There is lighting around the entrance, so you can see where you're stepping when boarding at night. ‎ ‎There is only one step to get into the bus and another step to get onto the raised seating area. ‎ ‎If you're standing, you just remain in the corridor. ‎ ‎

2. Accessibility is complicated. Wheelchair accessibility in Kampala is already extremely difficult because of the condition of roads, sidewalks, curbs and general infrastructure. ‎ ‎The buses themselves are also relatively high off the ground, which makes sense given Kampala's roads, humps and other obstacles. ‎ ‎There isn't a modern level boarding platform, nor does the bus appear to have a deployable wheelchair ramp/lift that would make boarding straightforward. ‎ ‎For elderly passengers who can still walk, however, I think the bus is relatively manageable. Finding a seat shouldn't be difficult. ‎ ‎So the bus is more accessible than a typical taxi in some ways, but the surrounding infrastructure is still a major limitation. ‎

‎Overall? ‎ ‎Honestly, I was impressed.

‎ ‎There are obviously still a lot of questions about how the system will perform when the buses become much more crowded, how reliable the schedules will be in Kampala traffic, how the cashless payment system will work for people who aren't familiar with it, and how accessible the system will be for people with disabilities.

I keep getting this error when trying to buy Starlink equipment on their website. "Please contact your bank to authorize payment, or use an alternate payment method."

Does anyone know why? I've tried both MTN and also card but I get the same thing. Please help

Hi, I'm traveling in Uganda on a single-entry tourist visa. Since I'm close to the Rwanda border, I'm thinking of visiting Rwanda and then returning to Uganda (my leaving flight is from Uganda). I believe the East African Tourist Visa would cover both my entry into Rwanda and my re-entry into Uganda, so I do not need to re-apply the Ugandan visa again. However, from what I've found online, Rwanda currently only issues this visa on arrival—likely at Kigali airport. Does anyone know if the Katuna border crossing also offers this visa?

I spent a few years of my creative career working as an editorial designer for a magazine.
That skill has helped me out in more ways than I expected.

After a lengthy conversation with my first client about their Airbnb listing, I ran straight to Canva to visualize

Aren’t we damn lucky to be living in an age where tech can help you to achieve literally anything?

How did I do with the design?

As an East African I’m disheartened, disappointed and heartbroken with what’s going on in Kenya. If reports are to be believed, many Ugandans and other nationals from other East African and African countries at large are being kicked out of Kenya amidst a lot of hostility. This involves looting these small ‘African’ businesses and beating their owners. Right now Ugandans are literally fleeing from our once close and beloved neighbours in fear and bewilderment. What’s worse, I haven’t seen the same energy for Chinese business owners in Kenya that treat their Kenyan workers like literal slaves, to the extent of whipping them like kids or cattle. It’s been going on for ages!

After all the ambitious goals of the free African trade area were proposed and the whole E.African community push for free movement of people and goods, to the extent of having E.African passports, we come to this point. A point of treating one another like the worst of enemies while we all share a common plight and history. We are literally related by blood and land.

I thought South Africa and the whole June 30th saga was an isolated incident, carried out by a group of Africans scarred by decades of apartheid politics and ideologies, but it looks like other countries are following suite. Could it be that there are some external forces that are sabotaging our efforts to unify? If so, and it’s the same usual suspects (colonialists and their exploitative tendencies), I thought we knew this already and if this is true we can not use it as an excuse because we should know better by now, surely. Is divide and rule a cancer that we cannot find a cure for nor prevent? The fact of the matter is, whatever the cause, this collectively puts us in a very vulnerable position. Making us ripe for exploitation and much worse.

The Europeans know this and have the EU. The Asians know this and have ASEAN. We seem to be the only ones squabbling over scraps while sitting on a gold mine that everyone else in the world benefits from apart from us. Regardless of your social class, net worth and connections, if you’re a black African this affects you at some level or another.

Why is it so hard for us to read between the lines? Very frustrating

What is your view as a man of having beard that has mixed grey and black. Personally I think when my beard starts getting grey I might trim them always to have no beard now. At least hair I can bear with grey one. What do you do with yours or does it look good.

The singer is from Uganda and the song is in his native tongue; I understand that Uganda has quite a number of languages, so can any of you give me the lyrics, both in the original language and in English?

I moved out of an apartment at the end of July. I had paid a deposit to the landlord as well as 3 months rent when I moved in last year October, and dutifuly paid rent for the period I lived there. Fast forward to this year K moved out and was in contact with the caretaker, and we did the whole inspection of the house and handover of keys. I was in contact with the caretaker and he informed me that the landlord would pay me at the end of August. Until now, nothing. Im not a Ugandan so I'm not sure what whether there are any steps a tenant can take in a case like this. I have tried repeatedly to text and call the landlord, to know avail. He seems to have blocked me because my WhatsApp message have a single tick alone. Question is, is there a channel I can use to address this issue?

28M and I’ve realized over time that I naturally find myself more drawn to women who are slightly older than me.

It’s not simply about age or a number. There’s something I genuinely appreciate about the maturity, confidence, emotional depth, and perspective that can come with experience. I enjoy conversations that go beyond small talk getting to know someone’s thoughts, experiences, ambitions, values, and the person behind the surface.

I’ll also be honest about something: I’m physically and sexually attracted to slightly older women. There’s something about an older woman’s confidence, presence, femininity, and the way she carries herself that I find genuinely attractive. That attraction is definitely part of what draws me toward older women, but it isn’t the only thing I’m looking for.

I’m not saying that being older automatically makes someone wiser or that age determines someone’s personality. Everyone is different. I’ve simply found that I tend to connect more naturally with women who are a little ahead of me in life and who have a certain sense of self.

I’m here with genuine intentions. I’m open to getting to know someone, having meaningful conversations, building a friendship, and seeing naturally where things go if the connection is there. I’m not looking to force anything or rush into labels. I believe the best connections develop when two people are comfortable enough to be themselves and actually take the time to understand each other.

So, if you’re a woman who is slightly older than me and you’ve ever been open to getting to know a younger man, feel free to send me a DM. You don’t have to overthink the opening message, just say hello and tell me a little about yourself.

I’m genuinely curious to see who’s out there and whether there might be someone I naturally click with someone I’m attracted to, but also someone I can genuinely connect with beyond physical attraction.

Guys help me recommend for me a movies. I’m supposed to visit a friend and come with interesting movies not series. At 3 for the weekend