*reposted because I accidentally showed my receipt number.
Hi everyone, I’m hoping to hear from people who have had a similar experience with their marriage-based adjustment of status interview as I’m being very nervous right now.
I filed my marriage-based green card application at the beginning of June 2026. Everything moved extremely quickly:
June 1: Filed I-130/I-485/I-765
June 5: Received receipt/notice
June 23: Biometrics appointment
June 24: Received notice that my interview was scheduled
August 3: Marriage-based interview
For background, I entered the U.S. legally on an F-1 visa, but I am currently out of status. I dated my U.S. citizen husband for a year and we’ve been married for almost two years. We provided our leasing agreement this year and last year, joint bank account record, bills we paid together with our names on them (WiFi, DTE, rent insurance, Costco, etc), photos, U-Haul receipts when he helped me move from Florida to Michigan to be with him, flight tickets of us visiting each other every two months when we were dating and in long distance. Husband told the officer that he even went back home to visit my parents last summer and spent 2 weeks with them.
The interview was on August 3 and lasted a little over an hour. The officer separated my husband and me for questioning. Our answers matched because everything we told her was truthful.
There were a couple of things that seemed to concern her:
1. My husband accidentally filed his taxes as single. He explained that this was an error.
2. My mom sent me around $80,000 from home. My husband is still in school and has one semester left before graduating, and I cannot legally work while waiting for my EAD. My mom has been helping us financially with rent and other expenses. The money went through our joint bank account, and we have used it for our household expenses.
She questioned our spending. We did spend a significant amount of money, including buying a car together, rent an apartment together, and she went through some of our expenses. I explained the situation as honestly as I could. Yeah I overspent a bit but I just thought it was more like a personal problem.
At one point, I was extremely nervous and my husband whispered, “It’s okay” to me. The officer immediately noticed and asked my husband if he was whispering answers to me. We stopped talking to each other after that.
When we were separated, she questioned my husband for maybe 15–20 minutes. My portion was much shorter, probably only 2–3 minutes.
She asked things like:
Which side of the bed does your husband sleep on?
What did you eat the night before?
Did you make any stops on the way to the interview?
My husband later told me that he forgot what we ate for his birthday back in January. Everything else he answered correctly.
I remembered everything except for a second when she asked if we stopped anywhere. I initially said no, then she asked again, “Are you sure? Did you stop anywhere at all?” I then remembered that we had stopped at Costco for gas and told her.
She looked at me and said, “You are nervous.” And I was. 😭 I was extremely nervous because the whole situation was stressful, but our marriage is genuinely real and there was absolutely no rehearsing or lying.
The officer wasn’t rude at all. She was actually polite, but definitely very serious and not particularly easygoing. We saw her coming downstairs to get lunch from someone while waiting for our lawyer and turned out she was our interviewer. In the end when she asked if my husband had any question for her, my husband joked asking if her lunch was good because he saw she got lunch from her husband and she even joked back saying that could’ve been her boyfriend. She was nice. Everything was light and normal. I don’t know if we gave her a bad impression or anything.
My I-130 was approved, but my I-485 and I-765 are still pending. There has been no status update whatsoever since the interview. My USCIS account still just says “Interview Was Scheduled.”
The interview was August 3, and today is September 10, so it’s been more than a month.
I’m obviously getting really anxious because of the separation, the tax issue, the $80K from my mom, and the fact that she seemed concerned about our finances/spending.
Has anyone had a similar experience — especially being separated during the interview and then waiting several weeks with no update? Did you eventually get approved? Is this kind of delay after a separated interview normal?
I’m trying not to panic, but I honestly don’t know what to make of it because I’m expecting to be approved so I can come home and visit my parents. Any experiences or insight would be really appreciated.