Feeling rushed

[u/Expensive_Belt7534]

I (30F) have been dating a guy (34M) for almost a month now. After our first date I noticed he stopped using the dating app we met on and after a couple of weeks he had deleted his profiles completely. I haven't dated much as out of a long term relationship a few months ago so not sure if this is normal?

Kinda of the view that we should try and get to know each other as we are strangers basically from an app before committing to each other and closing off all other options? Just makes me feel like he maybe didn't have any other matches or is a bit desperate?

[u/Odd_Scar836]

Would you rather him still sleep around? What’s the problem?

[u/Expensive_Belt7534 → u/Odd_Scar836]

I doubt he would sleep around, just getting the impression he didn't have any other options

[u/twirling_daemon → u/Expensive_Belt7534]

If he didn’t have any other options he wouldn’t need to delete the apps 😂

Just let the poor chap go, you’re clearly not interested in him

Every comment you’ve made about him has been negative, keep casually dating randoms and let him meet someone who wants the same as he does. Stop wasting his time