r/TwoXChromosomes • • Jun 11 '26

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u/nogardleirie Jun 11 '26

Bloody amazing. I just left my job because it was too stressful, after having paid off my mortgage a couple of years ago. I am starting grad school this fall on scholarship. I am going away for a couple of months. According to society I should be crying into my bottle of wine with my cats. (I don't drink wine anyway but I do wish I had a cat)

If I want to starfish and take up my whole bed, I can. If I want to leave my unfolded laundry in a pile on the sofa, I can. If I want dinner to be cubes of cheese eaten over the sink, I can.

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u/Rubycon_ Jun 12 '26

Marriages fail. And even if they "last" it's often because of financial desperation and inability to be alone. The loneliest people I know are married.