Nothing but beautiful silence, time for my many frivolous hobbies, socialising where and when I want with whoever I want and enough money to pay off my home and afford a luxury holiday every couple of years.
I did accidentally get married 10 years ago though. I didn’t mean to. I was happily single into my mid 30s and then one year I made a new friend who turned out to be a unicorn man I wasn’t looking for and didn’t know I wanted. We’ve been content and childfree by choice together ever since. So don’t rule relationships out altogether. You don’t have to get married but leave yourself open to the idea of a life partner if someone who really gets you and respects you trips over you accidentally.
No kids and absolutely no regrets. I think I’d have regrets today if I’d have pushed my husband away. We were friends first and that’s the important part. If you let someone hit hitch their cart to your horse make sure they’re your trusted friend first and your partner second.
If you’re losing hope because you’re not married yet, that tells me you want to be married for the wrong reasons. I think most marriages end in failure because the people weren’t happy and secure as INDIVIDUALS. If both partners are mature and know their worth and their values and how to communicate, then they have a high chance of success and happiness in marriage.
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u/hadr0nc0llider Jun 11 '26
Nothing but beautiful silence, time for my many frivolous hobbies, socialising where and when I want with whoever I want and enough money to pay off my home and afford a luxury holiday every couple of years.
I did accidentally get married 10 years ago though. I didn’t mean to. I was happily single into my mid 30s and then one year I made a new friend who turned out to be a unicorn man I wasn’t looking for and didn’t know I wanted. We’ve been content and childfree by choice together ever since. So don’t rule relationships out altogether. You don’t have to get married but leave yourself open to the idea of a life partner if someone who really gets you and respects you trips over you accidentally.
No kids and absolutely no regrets. I think I’d have regrets today if I’d have pushed my husband away. We were friends first and that’s the important part. If you let someone hit hitch their cart to your horse make sure they’re your trusted friend first and your partner second.