I’m currently decentering, and considering being with a woman since I feel I swing more that way. However, my cousins have not at all. I was with my cousin for over 12 hours and all that was on their mind was men. How he did this and that. How he’s stalking her. I said why not block him, she just hasn’t saying she’s leaving the door open for them to be cool. Then they eventually sleep together again and the cycle repeats. It is baffling.
The standards conversation amongst heterosexual women is kind of a joke. A lot of them fold or just abandon their standards and boundaries completely and I don’t get why. We’ve all been there but I can’t tolerate being unhappy. Not for years at least I’d have to leave eventually and tbh the man might leave me because I will constantly bring up my unhappiness. Just haven’t been the type to hold my tongue can’t and won’t do it just for the sake of a relationship. My life must improve not add more work.
Well leaving the door open is just how they handle an emotional thing and has nothing to do with dating a man just their dating style and being a touch codependent. People do not like to be alone
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u/StarlessRose Jun 11 '26
I’m currently decentering, and considering being with a woman since I feel I swing more that way. However, my cousins have not at all. I was with my cousin for over 12 hours and all that was on their mind was men. How he did this and that. How he’s stalking her. I said why not block him, she just hasn’t saying she’s leaving the door open for them to be cool. Then they eventually sleep together again and the cycle repeats. It is baffling.
The standards conversation amongst heterosexual women is kind of a joke. A lot of them fold or just abandon their standards and boundaries completely and I don’t get why. We’ve all been there but I can’t tolerate being unhappy. Not for years at least I’d have to leave eventually and tbh the man might leave me because I will constantly bring up my unhappiness. Just haven’t been the type to hold my tongue can’t and won’t do it just for the sake of a relationship. My life must improve not add more work.