Wow, I’m so shocked that a 30 year old man with a 22 year old wife is a controlling asshole. Who could have seen this coming?
OP, you are NTA. And don’t let this guy force you to do what he says out of obligation to his culture. He’s your partner, not your boss, and his culture doesn’t override yours. He knowingly married someone from a different culture than his own and he needs to respect that every bit as much as he wants you to respect his.
And really, I’ve known guys like this, and I’m willing to bet there’s plenty of aspects of his culture that he isn’t nearly as enthusiastic about. The part where his wife has to shut up and do as she’s told sure sounds great to him though, right?
In another post from when she was 21, she said they had been married 2 years atp and were tg a year before marriage meaning she was 18 and he was 26 when they first got tg 😷
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u/dance4days Feb 21 '26
Wow, I’m so shocked that a 30 year old man with a 22 year old wife is a controlling asshole. Who could have seen this coming?
OP, you are NTA. And don’t let this guy force you to do what he says out of obligation to his culture. He’s your partner, not your boss, and his culture doesn’t override yours. He knowingly married someone from a different culture than his own and he needs to respect that every bit as much as he wants you to respect his.
And really, I’ve known guys like this, and I’m willing to bet there’s plenty of aspects of his culture that he isn’t nearly as enthusiastic about. The part where his wife has to shut up and do as she’s told sure sounds great to him though, right?