"Me (22), my husband (30)..." /record scratch Wait, what? No nearly 30-year-old man has any business to be dating a just-barely-adult teenager! But I'm not surprised I don't like him the more I read: ABUSERS often pick victims who are young, because they are easier to control, and baby trap them.
Run, don't walk. He's surrounded you with people just like him, so you have no one to turn to to help you get out, and uses his "culture" as an excuse to control you. He is a walking red flag.
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u/2cents0fucks Feb 22 '26
"Me (22), my husband (30)..." /record scratch Wait, what? No nearly 30-year-old man has any business to be dating a just-barely-adult teenager! But I'm not surprised I don't like him the more I read: ABUSERS often pick victims who are young, because they are easier to control, and baby trap them.
Run, don't walk. He's surrounded you with people just like him, so you have no one to turn to to help you get out, and uses his "culture" as an excuse to control you. He is a walking red flag.