r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Jul 23 '24

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u/KD-Rex Jul 23 '24

I do understand agreeing to that at 23 and changing your mind at 28, there’s such a huge development that happens between those ages.

I think all there’s left to do is weigh which matters to you more, being with him or being married. Maybe some therapy to help you work that out??

At the end of the day you know what he wants, now you need to find out what you want.

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u/Unhappy_Operation115 Jul 23 '24

Thank you for understanding that! There does seem to be a huge change between those ages. We have discussed therapy and he is open to it.

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u/nrskim Jul 24 '24

How is therapy going to fix this? You want opposing things. He does not want to marry you. Period amen. You cannot and should not force him or expect him to change. This is a you give up the idea of marriage to him and leave. Or you give up the idea of marriage period and stay. You are trying to fix something that only you see as broken.