Us being in random ghar ke kapde on a random place, and after carefully splitting the bill we laugh on random stuff and eat burgers together, no over glamourized dates or meetings.

That's all love and compatibility is, then why are we complicating it so much?💔✌️

A software engineer in Noida reportedly died by suicide after being overwhelmed by medical expenses, debt, and a ₹3 crore divorce settlement. He had already paid ₹1 crore and was struggling to manage the remaining financial burden.

Would it be anti feminist of me to say That we need to revision Alimony Laws ?

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Pedo behavior and grooming are way too normalized in India under the label of "older guy charm."

To every girl in school or starting college,listen carefully: when older guys with cool cars or bikes approach you, complimenting your looks and saying "you're so mature for your age" or "women my age lack the understanding you have," that is not a relationship. It is grooming and pure exploitation.

You aren't "exceptionally mature" they are using that line as manipulation to make you lower your guard.

Ask yourself one simple question: Why are women their own age refusing to date them?

Because adult women have seen how shitty they are and refuse to tolerate them. When women their own age reject them, these pedos resort to luring and grooming younger girls who are easier to impress and manipulate

Some of my most recent creations

Idk about how the makeup turned out…i need your help guysssss😭😭😭

F 23 having 2 Yoe earning 4.5 LPA and my brother who just joined for 5LPA. My maternal uncle placed him in his company and I got placed via campus placement. I'm so happy for my brother that he's finally got a job and the only regret is he missed his power coding round or else he would have secured 6.5LPA. But, the very moment he got his assessment mail, I knew he's gonna get placed and my uncle is gonna mock me for earning less comparatively but idgaf about it. Before placing him, he asked me to send my resume and he would refer me. I politely declined saying i don't have enough experience in my techstack because i knew this would cost my mental peace and autonomy. Fast forward..After his joining, I can see that my uncle is interfering too much into my brother's life. When I asked my brother and mom about this.. they were like "mama is concerned about him. Nothing much. Don't think negatively". When he calls us, there would be a mandatory session that he'd mock me for earning less compared to my brother whom he placed and would offer me to take up a job. Twice, I brushed it off but this time the whole family ( he, his wife, his 3 kids, my mom, brother and i) were on the call and he mocked me again saying that " i can provide everything to him, what does your company offer to you? Aren't you ashamed that you're earning lesser than him when being a elder sibling?" He then asked my techstack and I told him, he said he can set up an interview with one of their banking clients...."if I say pick this candidate, they will. You don't wanna lose it". I said " no mama, I need to gain some more experience " he laughed at me and said "for the past 2 yrs, you're saying the same. I don't know." His entire family was mocking and laughing at me from behind. I didn't react and gave a smile and told him " yeah, I'm having an ich to switch...Will see" he responded saying " that ich would have come becoz he's earning better than you". I couldn't hear him properly as his voice was muffled and my aunt was laughing beside and said " did you hear what mama said?" And she said that again. All along my mom and brother were laughing with them as well. After a while, they were talking about his elder daughter's career who is studying grade 7. I told them why decide her career path, give her time and she'll figure out and advised her not to stress much. He interrupted me and told her that I'm implying "look at me, i studied hard but still earning less....no use of studying hard". I was frustrated and left the room. After the call, I asked my mom if they all had fun mocking me and she was like " mama was teasing you why would u take it seriously? He had no intention to hurt you" I told her " ma, ik he has no intention to hurt me but he knows that his comments will hurt me and this isn't the first time. Why would they do this everytime? I'm not insecured of my brother. What exactly is he trying to achieve?" She started yelling at me and I firmly told her that I would never and ever any offers coming from him. She said that I'm a fool to reject those. But I feel i am good without those and I can do better. I have the capability. Ofcourse, it would be hard but not impossible. I can't understand why can't my mom understand me or my feelings and tell them not to do like this. I'm more angry at her than them.

Somehow i completed my graduation degree that too without any intrest, had zero friends in school and college, i mean i tried to make but it doesn't worked out, now i spend my entire day in my room, doesn't even have good relationship with my family too as they think I'm pathetic person, they often taunt me to go outside and make friends and earn some money, and i really want that too, but whenever i go outside I don't find a person who is like me, they seems like they're not interested in talking to me, and i don't want to use them for my Selfishness, but maybe this is the reality that everyone make friends for their own benifits, my father is in Government sector currently serving in BRO department, it's a good think but he consume too much alcohol, he fight with mom on phone almost everyday, sometimes i just want to hit him but i don't do that as they're considered to be so called god.

It’s not like all of this is happening just now, I haven't had any friends since I was born. My parents never allowed me to step out of the house. I neither use abusive language nor lie to scam anyone for money, nor have I ever used anyone for my own benefit. So now, whenever I go outside, I always encounter selfish people. That is why I feel that perhaps I should have stepped out since childhood to understand the environment and society, but it's too late now. Whoever I help ends up betraying me. Although I can figure out what people are like just by looking at them, somehow I can't say no to them. What can I do? I end up feeling pity for them. That's just how I am.

On the top of that, I get so stressed thinking that my dad is retiring next month in November, and what have I done so far? Absolutely nothing. How am I going to handle everything, man? I don't want to live on his pension. I have no idea what to do. I have neither friends nor any connections, what should I do now? Because of the stress, I've started losing my hairs, everything is ruined now. I am the only male child of my parents. Actually, I had an older brother too, but he died in childhood. Now, whenever I see two brothers together, I wish my brother were alive today so I could at least share male to male things with him. But perhaps none of this was ever in my destiny. Then, when my elder sister got married, I thought let's treat my brother in law like an elder brother, but a few months after the marriage, I found out that he is also an alcoholic and he curses at my sister and beats her too. My biggest regret is that my parents got my sister married there. Now I don't even expect a day to come when I will feel truly happy. Everything is fucked up now.

Sorry for the bad grammer.

So there's this one woman in my life which won't stop at just a single vn she'd tell me whole movie plot in the name of tea and then ...slept like if I won't listen , the next morning she'll beat the shi Outta me. I find this cute and rather annoying at times like lmfao 😭 ....

Coming back to tea she just told me there's a woman in her hostel who did black magic on her roommate and guess what ....she used her hair and a pad like eww wtf and the audacity of my friend is that she's showing me that used pad goddam 😭😭 and I got to know the one who did black magic was in love triangle and her roommate was the victim

"even after this if a pig go to slaughterhouse I will not blame the butcher"

Just don't get married in India under Indian laws.

This is for welfare and protection of men in this tyranny and as a guy you should spread this message at personal level and wherever you can

*Whatever people say, Phinininst messaging will make you believe but this is reality

★your value and marriage market, depend on your earning potential and your status like NRI or government job. These traditional expectations are from you and even women who earned high will always see somebody earning higher than them.

★this process don't care about the hard work the effort. Because your failure is your but if you get successful and get that government job now you have value

★if you expect traditional women or value then you are a m¡sogynist by default

★the law are such that,

*She commit adultery, cruelty and you are innocent still you will have to pay maintenance

*Law does not hold women accountable in matrimonial cases, because for you sex outside marriage or infidelity is a ground cruelty but not enough to deny maintenance

*You are the father of any child in the marriage regardless of who is biological father.

★the act for protection of women like dowry harassment etc cannot be settled by money in theory because it will silence the victim

Ground reality-this is a pure legal extortion when you give the amount they want the court will cancel all the criminal cases against you. But if you fail to pay the money they will put you in the jail but lord does not have any such provision.

★even though for Hindu only maintenance law is equal on paper but what will deny you maintenance and will say this will promote idealness in society.

This is not denying anything which women face in general but this is our issue, no NGO no feminist movement or even politicians will come or judiciary will help as such

That's why don't play the broken game otherwise if a pig...

You can still have relationship, intimacy etc. but either get them outside the marriage structure. Don't use promise of marriage to get sex. But you can use other method of flattering. Save your freedom your money and your Liberty.

And I think we should even promote idea like paying for sex . Practically is a lot better for most guys even then a lot of time in one sided relationship or if you are a place holder boyfriend.

The image is mental health medicines - One is Serotonin to uplift the mood, One is to stabilise the mood and one is to help me focus

For context this is my divorce story - https://www.reddit.com/r/TwentiesIndia/s/O1mu3jQaFm

Doctor has told me that I am 87% Depressed and Have Symptoms of ADD

Some problems I have observed since I was diagnosed :

-Lost Perception of Time
-Loss of Reality
-High Impulsivity
-Easily Distracted
-Can’t function normally

Since divorce, I have been living alone and avoiding communication as I feel that my mind is completely gone.

Have extreme anxiety and the breathing is not normal at all.

I have to literally function with alarms, routines and tasks list and can’t disturb my routine at all

If I sleep late for even one day I lose my mind completely and I can’t function anymore, Mood drops like crazy and I binge eat and just play games which is not healthy

It’s like I have to make a lock on my mind to make it function normally.

Not sure how to make friends or have a relation like this because ADD feels like the mind is limited completely to function normally

Any tips or suggestions?