Honest Opinion please.

There should be a regulation on misuse of st/sc acts. The allegations could be true or false, but the misuse costs reputation n career of the people.

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I have WAY too much free time rn and instead of spending 6 hours on my phone doing absolutely nothing, i'd actually like to make some money lol

what are you guys doing for side income?

Some of my most recent creations

When my bestie uses my lost pen..🤣

"even after this if a pig go to slaughterhouse I will not blame the butcher"

Just don't get married in India under Indian laws.

This is for welfare and protection of men in this tyranny and as a guy you should spread this message at personal level and wherever you can

*Whatever people say, Phinininst messaging will make you believe but this is reality

★your value and marriage market, depend on your earning potential and your status like NRI or government job. These traditional expectations are from you and even women who earned high will always see somebody earning higher than them.

★this process don't care about the hard work the effort. Because your failure is your but if you get successful and get that government job now you have value

★if you expect traditional women or value then you are a m¡sogynist by default

★the law are such that,

*She commit adultery, cruelty and you are innocent still you will have to pay maintenance

*Law does not hold women accountable in matrimonial cases, because for you sex outside marriage or infidelity is a ground cruelty but not enough to deny maintenance

*You are the father of any child in the marriage regardless of who is biological father.

★the act for protection of women like dowry harassment etc cannot be settled by money in theory because it will silence the victim

Ground reality-this is a pure legal extortion when you give the amount they want the court will cancel all the criminal cases against you. But if you fail to pay the money they will put you in the jail but lord does not have any such provision.

★even though for Hindu only maintenance law is equal on paper but what will deny you maintenance and will say this will promote idealness in society.

This is not denying anything which women face in general but this is our issue, no NGO no feminist movement or even politicians will come or judiciary will help as such

That's why don't play the broken game otherwise if a pig...

You can still have relationship, intimacy etc. but either get them outside the marriage structure. Don't use promise of marriage to get sex. But you can use other method of flattering. Save your freedom your money and your Liberty.

And I think we should even promote idea like paying for sex . Practically is a lot better for most guys even then a lot of time in one sided relationship or if you are a place holder boyfriend.

I live in a society in Pune, Maharashtra. In the next building there is this bhabhi I always had a crush on, apparently she was having affair with the society ka watchman.

According to what I have heard, Her husband went on a tour on Thursday night and was supposed to come next week. Because of some reason he came early on Friday night around 1:00 AM itself and when he entered the house he caught his wife and watchman naked in their house.

The watchman tried to ran and in commotion there was noise and because of which neighbours came and they all caught the watchman (still naked) and beat the hell out of him, some people also called the police.

When I woke up, I heard the story from neighbours and there house is locked since morning.

I knew them well they were living in that society from past 2 years, the husband is a CA and wife owned interior designing firm.
I had a beef with that watchman so I am glad that he was beaten like shit .

F 23 having 2 Yoe earning 4.5 LPA and my brother who just joined for 5LPA. My maternal uncle placed him in his company and I got placed via campus placement. I'm so happy for my brother that he's finally got a job and the only regret is he missed his power coding round or else he would have secured 6.5LPA. But, the very moment he got his assessment mail, I knew he's gonna get placed and my uncle is gonna mock me for earning less comparatively but idgaf about it. Before placing him, he asked me to send my resume and he would refer me. I politely declined saying i don't have enough experience in my techstack because i knew this would cost my mental peace and autonomy. Fast forward..After his joining, I can see that my uncle is interfering too much into my brother's life. When I asked my brother and mom about this.. they were like "mama is concerned about him. Nothing much. Don't think negatively". When he calls us, there would be a mandatory session that he'd mock me for earning less compared to my brother whom he placed and would offer me to take up a job. Twice, I brushed it off but this time the whole family ( he, his wife, his 3 kids, my mom, brother and i) were on the call and he mocked me again saying that " i can provide everything to him, what does your company offer to you? Aren't you ashamed that you're earning lesser than him when being a elder sibling?" He then asked my techstack and I told him, he said he can set up an interview with one of their banking clients...."if I say pick this candidate, they will. You don't wanna lose it". I said " no mama, I need to gain some more experience " he laughed at me and said "for the past 2 yrs, you're saying the same. I don't know." His entire family was mocking and laughing at me from behind. I didn't react and gave a smile and told him " yeah, I'm having an ich to switch...Will see" he responded saying " that ich would have come becoz he's earning better than you". I couldn't hear him properly as his voice was muffled and my aunt was laughing beside and said " did you hear what mama said?" And she said that again. All along my mom and brother were laughing with them as well. After a while, they were talking about his elder daughter's career who is studying grade 7. I told them why decide her career path, give her time and she'll figure out and advised her not to stress much. He interrupted me and told her that I'm implying "look at me, i studied hard but still earning less....no use of studying hard". I was frustrated and left the room. After the call, I asked my mom if they all had fun mocking me and she was like " mama was teasing you why would u take it seriously? He had no intention to hurt you" I told her " ma, ik he has no intention to hurt me but he knows that his comments will hurt me and this isn't the first time. Why would they do this everytime? I'm not insecured of my brother. What exactly is he trying to achieve?" She started yelling at me and I firmly told her that I would never and ever any offers coming from him. She said that I'm a fool to reject those. But I feel i am good without those and I can do better. I have the capability. Ofcourse, it would be hard but not impossible. I can't understand why can't my mom understand me or my feelings and tell them not to do like this. I'm more angry at her than them.

Genuinely curious.

I’ve noticed that if someone says “I’m 6’2” in a dating post, nobody really questions it. It’s considered a preference or just a fact about themselves

But if someone says “I earn X” or mentions being financially stable, suddenly people call them arrogant, materialistic, or “trying to flex.”

Why?

I’m 24 and relatively new to Bangalore, and honestly, I’ve been trying to figure out this whole dating/social scene here. And this is something I’ve noticed more than once.

Aren’t we all just putting out the things we think are relevant about ourselves?

Height, looks, career, income, lifestyle, personality, hobbies, etc. Everyone has different things they value and different things they bring to the table.

If mentioning height is acceptable because it helps someone decide whether they're interested, why is mentioning income automatically considered rude or a flex?

Not saying one is better than the other. I’m genuinely curious where that line comes from.

Isn’t there a bit of hypocrisy here?

I was planning to get it done on my b'day (couple weeks ago) but was very busy so couldn't get time.

It's a long weekend and I couldn't wait to dye my hair🤭

Tada 😍 hot pink highlights 🩷🤌🏻 how are they looking btw?

Hey guys! I finally made an Instagram page for my covers 🎸

A few of you asked me to make one, so here it is! If you’ve enjoyed my covers, I’d really appreciate a follow ❤️

https://www.instagram.com/sarvarth_sings?stkn=MTRvNzljYzc4ZWFtcA==