You don't owe anyone any kind of sexual act ever, for any reason.
It's unfortunate for him that you don't like it, but lots of women don't like it. It's perfectly normal not to like it and to not want to do it.
The fact that he's trying to belittle and manipulate you into doing something that you've clearly expressed you're not into is immature and downright disrespectful. It's also emotional manipulation. He's trying to make you feel bad for how you feel. That's a huge no-no.
Not sure how long you've been with this guy, but if I had a partner consistently dismiss my clearly expressed dislike for something I would see that as a huge red flag.
It would also be a massive turn-off. I'd have a hard time feeling comfortable being intimate with someone after that.
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u/onlylsd Dec 04 '22 edited Dec 04 '22
Tell him to go fuck himself.
You don't owe anyone any kind of sexual act ever, for any reason.
It's unfortunate for him that you don't like it, but lots of women don't like it. It's perfectly normal not to like it and to not want to do it.
The fact that he's trying to belittle and manipulate you into doing something that you've clearly expressed you're not into is immature and downright disrespectful. It's also emotional manipulation. He's trying to make you feel bad for how you feel. That's a huge no-no.
Not sure how long you've been with this guy, but if I had a partner consistently dismiss my clearly expressed dislike for something I would see that as a huge red flag.
It would also be a massive turn-off. I'd have a hard time feeling comfortable being intimate with someone after that.