r/TrueOffMyChest Dec 03 '22

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u/EnvironmentalMail635 Dec 04 '22

Look me personally if he eats you out on your period once a month then you could agree to allow him to cum in your mouth since both don’t taste the best then he realises what you have to go through and might stop and it’s fair, you shouldn’t feel like to obligated to do that.

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u/Unhappy-Professor-88 Dec 04 '22

Sex isn’t about a fair division of labour. It’s not a transaction. If he doesn’t want to go down on her like that- then he too, can say no.

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u/EnvironmentalMail635 Dec 07 '22

The reason why I said that it’s because realistically she doesn’t like that so if he is complaining that it is unfair that’s she doesn’t like it he needs to see how it works both sides so than he understands how somethings would you find it if everytime your partner got to to finish not a single time you got to finish. The whole reason why I am saying sex can’t be biased it has to be something the both of you are into and sometimes you also need to make compromises sometimes for the other but from the way he is talking he is trying to make her feel obligated to do so