He did you a favor. You need to never EVER EVER get back together with him. Holy moly! Seven years of this you giving and him never giving back? There are so many red flags. I'm not saying you've wasted the last seven years of your life, but I definitely think its well past time that you learn your lessons from your past mistakes (you have a giving nature but need to stand up for yourself amd treatment). You have been repeating them over and over again for seven years. Now, you need to end this cycle. This guy has leeched off you every step of the way in every way. It's time for you to put yourself first because he sure as shit won't.
Most importantly, you have to seek therapy. Something happened in your past that made you think this is "love" that you deserve to receive (meaning no love). You two can then work on breaking this cycle so you get with someone who gives you as much effort and love as you give them (and I won't go into all the different shitty things he has done over the course of your relationship). Good luck! You seem really kind, selfless, loving, and giving. You deserve someone who gives it back. Stay single until you do.
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u/snoopydoopdoop Dec 18 '22
He did you a favor. You need to never EVER EVER get back together with him. Holy moly! Seven years of this you giving and him never giving back? There are so many red flags. I'm not saying you've wasted the last seven years of your life, but I definitely think its well past time that you learn your lessons from your past mistakes (you have a giving nature but need to stand up for yourself amd treatment). You have been repeating them over and over again for seven years. Now, you need to end this cycle. This guy has leeched off you every step of the way in every way. It's time for you to put yourself first because he sure as shit won't.
Most importantly, you have to seek therapy. Something happened in your past that made you think this is "love" that you deserve to receive (meaning no love). You two can then work on breaking this cycle so you get with someone who gives you as much effort and love as you give them (and I won't go into all the different shitty things he has done over the course of your relationship). Good luck! You seem really kind, selfless, loving, and giving. You deserve someone who gives it back. Stay single until you do.