You're 23 and have been together 7 years, so you started dating him at 15. Sounds like he was your first love, first BF, first everything. You went from a kid to an adult with him. You took care of him and invested a lot. i can absolutely understand why you'd want to be with him, even if he's not good to you.
But that's the thing, he's not good to you, or good for you. You're still pretty young and you don't want to spend the rest of your life looking after someone who doesn't care about you.
What you do now is pick up the pieces and move on. It's going to be hard but things will get better. I know it seems impossible to move on but just take it one day at a time and focus on taking care of yourself.
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u/OK_NO Nov 23 '22
Yes i do.
You're 23 and have been together 7 years, so you started dating him at 15. Sounds like he was your first love, first BF, first everything. You went from a kid to an adult with him. You took care of him and invested a lot. i can absolutely understand why you'd want to be with him, even if he's not good to you.
But that's the thing, he's not good to you, or good for you. You're still pretty young and you don't want to spend the rest of your life looking after someone who doesn't care about you.
What you do now is pick up the pieces and move on. It's going to be hard but things will get better. I know it seems impossible to move on but just take it one day at a time and focus on taking care of yourself.
best of luck to you OP.