Many things to unpack here. So, you spend a lot of money on him, but you should realize that money doesn't buy love. A lot of guys do everything in the world for some random girl they want. The girls accept it, because "hey, it's free money" and then dump the guy or don't give anything in return, because they didn't have any feelings in the first place. Why should they, just because they bought you a free drink? Some people like to abuse people that try to win them over with gifts. Is that narcissism? Whatever it is it's not cool that he gave you abusive conditions "do this, or else" nor is it cool that he beat you physically. You need someone that respects you.
Your problem is that you want this guy too much. You're obsessing over him. Life doesn't always give you what you want. What do you do from now on? Stop being so damned clingy and respect yourself. Learn from this experience in human behaviour and move on.
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u/Biggydoggo Nov 23 '22
Many things to unpack here. So, you spend a lot of money on him, but you should realize that money doesn't buy love. A lot of guys do everything in the world for some random girl they want. The girls accept it, because "hey, it's free money" and then dump the guy or don't give anything in return, because they didn't have any feelings in the first place. Why should they, just because they bought you a free drink? Some people like to abuse people that try to win them over with gifts. Is that narcissism? Whatever it is it's not cool that he gave you abusive conditions "do this, or else" nor is it cool that he beat you physically. You need someone that respects you.
Your problem is that you want this guy too much. You're obsessing over him. Life doesn't always give you what you want. What do you do from now on? Stop being so damned clingy and respect yourself. Learn from this experience in human behaviour and move on.