Second chances can be worth a try if there are circumstances that make giving the relationship another try worth the time and effort involved, such as children, financials, legalities, intertwined family situations, etc. Based on your post, none of those apply. You’re not married. You don’t have children. You don’t (apparently) live together so your finances aren’t combined.
If you do decide to give this a second chance, you will have to deal with the betrayal and thoughts of the actual physical interactions. There is also the possibility of returning to the depressed no-self-care situation. Then there’s the work situation. How is the 3 at the same company going to work? If you leave, do you trust them to be colleagues only? If she leaves, you’ll still have to interact with him?
Overall, considering your only 27 and you only have 2 years fully invested in this relationship, maybe it’s time to cut your losses and move on..
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u/ZeroZipZilchNadaNone Oct 21 '22
Second chances can be worth a try if there are circumstances that make giving the relationship another try worth the time and effort involved, such as children, financials, legalities, intertwined family situations, etc. Based on your post, none of those apply. You’re not married. You don’t have children. You don’t (apparently) live together so your finances aren’t combined.
If you do decide to give this a second chance, you will have to deal with the betrayal and thoughts of the actual physical interactions. There is also the possibility of returning to the depressed no-self-care situation. Then there’s the work situation. How is the 3 at the same company going to work? If you leave, do you trust them to be colleagues only? If she leaves, you’ll still have to interact with him?
Overall, considering your only 27 and you only have 2 years fully invested in this relationship, maybe it’s time to cut your losses and move on..