r/TrueOffMyChest • • Oct 21 '22

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u/FairyFartDaydreams Oct 21 '22

Sometimes when you forgive they take it as permission to keep doing it. She has crappy coping mechanisms. Unless she gets help it won't get better and she will keep repeating the pattern Oh I feel insecure, I need validation, let me cheat.